When people meet me and my girlfriend of 4 years for the first time they always call us the lesbian version of Will & Jada, everyone thinks we are made for each other. I am very outspoken and loud, she's very quiet and reserved. We are total opposites but we bring out the best in each other and we got a good thing going. We are very playful and loving all of the time. We have never have real bad arguements, it's usually just playful bickering. A lot of lesbian relationship fall into this crazy category where the two women end up acting more like friends than lovers and that's where the problems starts. That's why so many gay relationships are so short lived. It is also the reason people think that all gay people do is fuck around. My woman and I have done a great job of having a meaningful relationship where we are best friends, great lovers, and wonderful overall companions.