Your relationship: is it the typical cliche??

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  1. Black Hippie

    Black Hippie Peace & Love

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    When people meet me and my girlfriend of 4 years for the first time they always call us the lesbian version of Will & Jada, everyone thinks we are made for each other. I am very outspoken and loud, she's very quiet and reserved. We are total opposites but we bring out the best in each other and we got a good thing going. We are very playful and loving all of the time. We have never have real bad arguements, it's usually just playful bickering.

    A lot of lesbian relationship fall into this crazy category where the two women end up acting more like friends than lovers and that's where the problems starts. That's why so many gay relationships are so short lived. It is also the reason people think that all gay people do is fuck around. My woman and I have done a great job of having a meaningful relationship where we are best friends, great lovers, and wonderful overall companions.
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  2. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    you know, i think i can actually agree with you on this (mostly).

    i don't see the harm in having an occassional talk about how we feel...it doesn't have to be "how we feel about our relationship" ....just your feelings. because there are plenty of times when i sit around and watch you play video games for 5 hours and my mouth is closed the entire time...i just don't understand why it's so hard to open up or just say what you really mean.

    but outside of that, you were pretty on point
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  3. SuB zer0

    SuB zer0 A.D.R.I.A.N.N.A

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    i honestly cant see how two women can form a relationship

    seems like it would be like tryina drown a fish

    same goes for 2 men which is just ehhh wtf ne way
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  4. XxPuReInnOcEncexX

    XxPuReInnOcEncexX New Member

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    ^ lmao. same here

    But i can also see some of my relationship with the samii describes hers.
    About how hes always the one to just be like 'get over it' if theres a fight. and as well as just putting it out there if we feel somethings wrong, and not walking on eggshells.
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  5. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    ^^ yeah it's really like that tho. if he thinks im stupid, he's gon tell me "you sound fuckin stupid" and vice versa. he calls it not being sugarcoated. i used to call it being rude and tactless, but i've become accustomed to it.
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  6. I think you should be carefull about what you become accustomed to or let slide. We can get wrapped up and dissensitized to things to the point we adopt someone elses views to keep the peace and trim our own principles in the process.
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  7. Konscious

    Konscious Resident Sage

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    You sound fuckin' stupid, samii
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  8. XxPuReInnOcEncexX

    XxPuReInnOcEncexX New Member

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    ^ that is true. i do find myself doing that sometimes just like you said to keep the peace
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  9. Hidden_Poetry

    Hidden_Poetry New Member

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    So true....
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  10. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    catch a brick iggs.

    @ Brit: i feel you. i've heard about that on Oprah, it's like when you shrink. the things that you like about yourself, that are seperate from the relationship can diminish (did i spell that right?). advice taken. but trust, there is shit that he does that i cannot STAND or that i think it utterly retarded, and vice versa, and that's ok. we're 2 different ppl ya know?
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  11. Konscious

    Konscious Resident Sage

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    ^Oprah is anti-men and anti-marriage... she and Gail are sex partners.
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  12. what has Oprahs stance on marriage and men got to do with ones principles possibly slipping within relationships?
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  13. Konscious

    Konscious Resident Sage

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    ^It warps her perception, makes her more cynical.

    This "principles slipping" bullshit is pop psycho babble similar to the comment J-Ho made a few years ago about women "losing their power" when they fall in love.

    If you want to believe their hack philosophies, then by all means do.
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  14. you're reaching

    Where you lose the plot entirely is where you take oprah+ her feminist sentiment+ slipping principles and assume not only that it is popular psycho- babble but that its origin must be in the 2nd or 3rd wave women's movement.
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  15. mr.rip

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    well we started off as the best of firends i met here in high school she was actually one of my boys girl lol all of us use to hang together smoking blunts and shit just chilling so her and i use to vibe better then her and my boy to make a long story short we ended up being with each other by playing the dare game lol she dared me to paint her name on my paints so i dared her to go break up with my boy lol and she went and did it haha so when he came and saw her name on my paints he looked at her and i and just said thats so fucked up. i told him he needed to start spending more time with her instead of telling her he got things to do and to go be with me tell he come back from work or playing ball. so to make a long story even shorter we started getting feelings for each other and ended up together. now we been together for 15yrs. we been though hell and back lol. now to get back to the topic of this thread lol well you needed to know the start in order for me to tell you what you realy wanted to know. anyways we are day and night i'm the carm one and she the hot head but i love her and wouldn't changing a thing about her sometimes we go to the movies or buy a bootleg movie and just chill at home. it's to the point where we can look at each other and know what the other one is thinking,we finish each others sentences, lol when we go out to eat she likes eatting mor of my food then hers and i'll drink more of her drinks then my own lol. i let her quit her job so she could go back to school and i went to work the four yrs she was in school just held it down. we love going to the porno shops haha it keeps the sex life on fire you gotta keep it interesting don't get comfertable and take each other forgranted thats when it get boring. we like taking lil trips out of town when we can find a baby sitter. but like every other couple we have or ups and downs love is not sunshine everyday you know. we fuss never physicaly fight but making up is the best part lol. if we argue for a week maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan thats some good fucking after that boy lol. i remember calling out of work just to fuck lol hey i had to do what i had to doshit the couch get old after a while hell and who wants to jack off when there's some sweet meat in the other room lol. sometimes both of us play hard to get fronting like we don't wanted knowing we can't wait to rip each others clothes off. and fucking in the public is so fucking fuuuuuuun wheeeeeeew lol i remember this one time she was giving mehead while we was on the highway man it felt so good i drove clean through the toal both they sent me a nice fat 100 dollar ticket lol i was like damn it was worth it lol. but you gotta do different shit. don't stick to the same ole stuff. i kiss her every single day before i go to work if i forget i come back home and kiss her just to let her know she still turn me the fuck on ok lol. i learned alot from her even thou she is younger then i am i grew up off of her and to this day we learn something new about each other.
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  16. mr.rip

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    upping for sammy
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