You think men are turned on by intellegent women or turned off by them?

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  1. mr.rip

    mr.rip New Member

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    Me personaly i love a woman with a good head on her shoulder. I love women that know what they want out of life and can hold a intellegent convosation.
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  2. That Nigga

    That Nigga aka Hot Shyt

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    why you asking women what men think?
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  3. mr.rip

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    Well after having this conov with my home girls they seem to think men are afraid of a intellegent independent woman. They said some men like women that have low selfesteam about their selves. So i would like to know what my girls here think.
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  4. RealMS

    RealMS Ne te quaesiveris extra

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    An actual man would be turned on...I think beauty will get you places but really you have to have knowledge as well. I mean, if you can't hold an intellectual conversation, you do nothing for me.
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  5. That Nigga

    That Nigga aka Hot Shyt

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    ^Whats an intellectual conversation? Politics? Religion? I hear a lot of girls say this but they dont know squat.
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  6. RealMS

    RealMS Ne te quaesiveris extra

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    If a guy can only talk about basketball, or talk about other ppl. ...then he has no intellect whatsoever to even have an interesting conversation. Doesn't even have to deal with politics, or religion...talk about something you learned recently, or your perception on things. SOMETHING...to make me want to listen.
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  7. Bar nigga

    Bar nigga 314 STL Ancient of daze..

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    i love smart hoes, that read books


    really i do....


    ...my wife is a teacher at an elementary school


    and my duck off can recite a whole keisha cole album front to back and roll a mean blunt


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  8. 3ternal

    3ternal Stay hungry my friend.

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    Basically goes like this, I'm more turned on by some ditzy bitch before I fuck just cause [teet]. After though and in terms of a LTR, of course I'd rather have a smart chick.
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  9. mr.rip

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    Thats what i'm talking bout. Alot of women just look good and nothing else going for them lol.
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  10. Nasty__Ness

    Nasty__Ness The Queen of Topicals

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    using my past relationship. My ex claimed to want an independent woman, but then it crushed his ego. He couldn't get beyond the fact that I didn't NEED him, and couldn't comprehend the difference of WANTING him in my life.

    I think ultimately, a guy wants more of an intelligent woman by his side (fucking for fucking it doesn't really matter). But through in an independent woman, and I think it scares them more times than not.
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  11. mr.rip

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    Shame on you. you ego crusher tisk tisk haha. i'm just playing
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  12. SeeSon

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    This may come off as harsh, so I apologize in advance, but I honestly feel that this is what "independent women" tell themselves to make themselves feel better when relationships don't work out. There are undoubtedly some men that are intimidated by an "independent woman", the problem is that in many scenarios, these women are disrespectful and they go out of their way to make sure that their man knows that he is not needed. If a woman is capable of being both independent and respectful, she is the ideal wife, but if miss so called independent is also disrespectful, then she will forever be alone and constantly talk to her friends about how men aren't about shit and how men are intimidated by a strong independent woman.
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  13. Nasty__Ness

    Nasty__Ness The Queen of Topicals

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    I agree with you on the respect deal. That goes without saying. If there is not respect from both people, the relationship isn't going to work.

    And no, with my ex, we both had steady jobs and made okay money. His problem was that at the end of the month he had to ask me for money for shit, and I NEVER had to ask him. Which in turn killed his ego. I could pay the bills on what I made and take care of our son with what he put toward the house funds. But when it came down to personal items, I didn't have to ask him for money to pay for gas, but he always did. And he knew he was getting paid 2 times as much as me.

    So when we split up, he ended up marrying a woman he could talk to (at the time), but she depended on him. And when he was giving her enough, she stepped out on him. They are now divorced!
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  14. Blaine Fontaine

    Blaine Fontaine property hustla

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    ill fuck a dumb broad...but wifey has to be smart
    its nothin sexier then a smart women on her grind...fuck these dumb ass lazy broke hoes
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  15. jaz08

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    I think majority is turned on by smart women. Some men just get intimidated.
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  16. Pistol Petee

    Pistol Petee Pussy Eater

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    lmaooooo...thank you...these broads be acting like they be talking about some heavy ass shit when they say they want intelligent conversation but then they dont even be talking about nothing...women are crazy son
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  17. Pistol Petee

    Pistol Petee Pussy Eater

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    *dead*

    so true
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  18. HOLLOW 55

    HOLLOW 55 You niggas cant trap here

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    Why wouldn't they be turned on by them?

    I'm an intelligent man. I want an intelligent woman.
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  19. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    ^^Truth.. The ones that are turned off by them are probably intimidated by them, thats a two way street though.
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  20. Pistol Petee

    Pistol Petee Pussy Eater

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    women always find some sugar coating type of reason for why they are unattractive
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