My homegirl came at me with a situation that I really don't want to tell her how I honestly feel, only because I'm cool with the dude involved, but I do think it is a risk. She has been talking to this dude for about three months, and they don't seem to be too far from being together. She was introduced to him at her homegirl's house, who is somebody she's cool with and kicks it with, but isn't somebody very close to her at that level. The homegirl put in a good word for dude, and said that he was very cool, respectable, and somebody that she should enjoy talking to...so her and the dude got pretty close. A few days ago, they were talkin on a relationship tip...and the dude told her, "look...it's something I want to tell you that you probably don't know. About a year ago, me and [your homegirl who introduced us] were havin sex, but we were never talkin like that. We were just friends then, and we even had other people we ended up being serious with, and we didn't really feel each other like that, so we just stayed friends. She doesn't like telling people, so I'm sure she never told you, and she is not the type to ever be jealous, so you shouldn't worry about it at all." She called me later that night, basically cussing both them out to me, saying they were both shady as f'k...but I told her, biased of course, that she should talk to both them about it, and trust her homegirl's judgement. She calmed down, and said that she doesn't know if she can trust it, knowing that her homegirl considers dude to be a "close friend", and she just feels it could end up being all bad later on. So ladies...what would you do in this situation? Would your main concern be wondering if they would ever hook up later on, or if there are any feelings on either side?