Before you come in here debating me listen... I am gay I tried fighting it off for a long time now but I realized I cant so i just came out and told everyone close to me recently.. And it feels so much better.. How u gonna tell a gay person that you can choose to be gay? i've lived through it, and im tellin u straight up.. All i wanted was to be normal and i tried but i couldn't. Is that choosing? Thank you!