would you give your ex a second chance at love with you?

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  1. mr.rip

    mr.rip New Member

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    Do you think you could date your ex later on in life if you saw that he/ she changed?
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  2. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Depends on the circumstance surrounding the breakup and what lead to it. Was it amicable? Did it get dirty?

    If the breakup was faultless (bad timing, someone moved away, etc) and it was on good terms... I'd reconsider getting back together. Otherwise, nah.. I would prefer to just move forward with a new person.

    I think people can change... so it's possible that it can work... I just hate feeling like I'm moving backwards.
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  3. Ignorant

    Ignorant Village Idiot

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    Everybody changes, though... and your question assumes that one person is always at fault... I think that's an inaccurate assumption for most relationships.
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  4. MISSKEYdaQUEEN

    MISSKEYdaQUEEN Watch the black panther..

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    There is only ONE ex I would consider giving a go again with. The rest are where they need to be ;)
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  5. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    Yeah.. I haven't had any really bad breakups just kinda drifted apart from the other person (life changes, people change, etc.). The last guy I broke up with.. ehhh... things would have to change A LOT for it to be worth trying again.
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  6. MISSKEYdaQUEEN

    MISSKEYdaQUEEN Watch the black panther..

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    ^^^I feel you. And what are the odds of that. Sometimes it just isn't worth it!
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  7. UnbrokeN

    UnbrokeN Well-Known Member

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    I think i know where you are going with this one...
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  8. ThisMiss

    ThisMiss Guest

    No definitely not, we just weren't right for each other, and no amount of time will change that.
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  9. R-Tistic

    R-Tistic Your favorite DJ

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    Maybe my ex from 8th grade, LOL. My ex from 10th grade is cute as hell, but she cheated on me back then n she's married now...so I'll beat n keep movin, that's about it. My ex from 12th grade...I won't even add her as a friend on Myspace or Facebook so it's no way n hell she'd ever have "another" chance...n I'm the one who broke up with her. Gettin with her was a major mistake.
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  10. Ignorant

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    Yeah, you do, but they can't handle it... so I won't press unless asked.
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