do women love in two ways? as daughters or as mothers? i've been thinking that depending on whether or not a man is like a boy or like a man determines whether a woman is going to love him by looking up to him the way a daughter looks up to her father or down to him (lovingly) the way a mother looks down to her son the way a father possesses his daughter and the way a mother possesses her son? basically, either the feeling of belonging to (possessed by) a man the way a daughter would belong to a father; or the feeling of having him belong to her in the way a son would belong to a mother do you want both? to possess and yet to be possessed at the same time?