Discussion in 'Ladies Lounge' started by mr.rip, Jun 29, 2007.
men what is your biggest probolem with some women that you don't like?
some women are angry because of either how they were raised or how they were treated in past relationships. they bring that anger into a great new relationship with a good man and end up havin arguing matches everyday for the smallest shit.
what would be an example for the smallest shit? :
Man: Come here a minute.
Woman: Whats this..
Man: I cleaned the kitchen, put away the laundry & made you breakfast.
Woman: Why? You do something bad? Feeling guilty about something?
Man: YOU'RE IMPOSSIBLE
(Man storms off angrily)
Woman (thinks to herself): Pssh.. I could make a better breakfast..
1) Say what you mean
2) I am NOT your ex don't treat me like it or assume that I'm gonna act the same way she did.
My main beef is acting like the "tough" guy. Fucking hate that.
basically they could be very reluctant to actually hear a guy out
maybe if you actually hear him out cuz he's attracted to you and he wants to meet you,you may be suprised
but they let past relationships ruin almost every new one that could come their way....
and theirs a lot of high maintence and selfishness in society these days
and people lack honesty
At this point...my problem is that most women I meet in college all seem to have negative views about men, just because of their negative experiences, or lack of experiences....even though most of them have done something, or have something about them, that is the true reason that they aren't successful with men. Most of them complain about how men aren't ready for this n that, and how they can't meet a nice guy that they are attrated to, and how all men want to use them for sex....not realizing the problems that they have that cause men to act this way toward them.
That they can act like it is a life or death situation when it comes to talking about how they actually feel about something. I really wish every man on this planet could realize that having emotions is not a bad thing.
I would say the biggest problem that I've had, thus far, is the dishonesty and sneaky behavior. I can pretty much deal with anything except that. Luckily I've only had to deal with that once. lol
Right, I've been guilty of that but I've also overcome that. Sometimes I just can't explain into words how I feel about things until it's too late. :esko:
After sex, a few hours or days later they call you to "Do something" other than sex...
I don't get it, if I already got sex from her - why on earth would I waste my time doing random activities with her?...
And if we do go out expecting me to pay for shit, fuck that - buy your own food cow.
That and cuddling, I hate cuddling...
thewy always think what they say is the truth although its not always that way
lol...yall say u want a dude who "has emotions" etc
but as soon as he opens up, ur clownin son behind his back with ya homegirls...lmao
its hard as hell to get past women with their negative views about men
i seem to never find any women that would ever get past negative experiences with men
i would say im a very emotional guy and kind of unusual with it to
but a lot of women put this wall up and if i could just get past that maybe i could finally actually get some where with someone instead of the same old bullshit...
"well men act this way"
"well women act this way"
people always generalizing the whole entire gender
very very frusterating
My only beef with some women are those who stay with guys who beat them. Straight up stupid. Makes you want to slap em upside the head : )
I know a female who has a boyfriend who hit her and cheated on her, and all her homeboys (at the time) tried to find him and jump him....and two months later, she still with him. Now, she brags about havin a "crazy ass boyfriend" when a dude says something to her or gets on her nerves.
i agreee, fuck that dude
if he would beat me i will break his jaw
some girls are just naive and think their love will always last
fuck it...not every man you are with is worth your time
sometimes you just got to do what you gotta do and let that mothafuka be
I'm worth your time MiXd. Let's get it on
I'ma revive this one a bit..
Honestly my biggest issue is Men with a one track mind. The inability to think outside of the box and look at situations from all angles, and take into consideration all points of views. Basically a man who doesn't think logically or rationale about the situation. However, makes assumptions and percieve them as being the only correct answer. That's my biggest issue as of lately.
^its nice to see a post about men and 'one tracked minds' that doesnt actually involve thinking with dicks
btw:I admire how women often see so many layers and angles to situations
i definitely got way more than a one track mind
but that kind of goes with my beef with people in general
a lot of people really dont explore past what they already know...
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