Women...do these words upset you?

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  1. Shadow

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    So if you post a picture and the only thing someone says is "I'd hit dat" would you be offended/insulted?
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  2. MissAndrya

    MissAndrya Evolution is what is.

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    It's usually the words, not the sentiment that is offensive. If they said 'your husband is a lucky guy', or ' Damn!', or any number of other things....it means the same thing, basically.

    Overall, that is a compliment tho.
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  3. Shadow

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    the same thing?
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  4. MissAndrya

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    I believe so, because even though the words 'I'd tap that' weren't spoken, the thought is usually still there.
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  5. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    of course, thats how guys work with chicks...

    unless the woman is unattractive, guys underlying motive is usually sex or sloppy bj's
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  6. MissAndrya

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    In that case, they are usually three sheets to the wind and it's a last ditch effort to get some. Guys don't usually do that shit sober, lol
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  7. Shadow

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    So is there a difference in you mind when i guys says " Hey, you are sexy." and "Hey, you are beautiful."
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  8. MissAndrya

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    Whatever it is they say, we appeal to them on some level. That's where the flattery/compliment comes in. Every woman appeals or doesn't appeal to a man for different reasons. One guy might find a woman sexy, and another may find her gorgeous and another still may find her cute or ugly.

    I, at my age, find it flattering to hear compliments.
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  9. Shadow

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    so you see no real difference between those words
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  10. TreHolla

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    what do you think about the term thirsty?

    and why is it different for women and men? why should it matter if a guy says hell yeah i'd hit that, or you're beautiful.

    is it not the same thing as a girl thinking..."i'd hump him" and i think he's handsome?

    why do women get so upset when guys are sexually attracted to them?
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  11. Shadow

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    ^^^yea i don't understand why that upset most women lol
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  12. Carpe Noctem

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    They're only upset when it's uglies.
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  13. Shadow

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  14. MissAndrya

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    Yes, of course I see a difference, and naturally I would prefer the kinder forms of the compliment. All I meant was that they mean the same thing in essence, but some are said without respect for the lady. I don't offend easily, I just understand it for what it is.
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  15. TreHolla

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    what a shame.

    to think that women could possibly be horny too.
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  16. Sir Bustalot

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    dont fool yaself, women are the same as guys, maybe the exact things they say are different but the underlying theme is the same. Chicks do get horny quite often.
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  17. MissAndrya

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    I'm in my 40's, the rumors are true, lol
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  18. straight_evil

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    I wouldn't be offended, but as I do have a better half, I think it would be disrespectful to him to say something like that. But me, I would take it about the same as I take any other compliment.
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  19. MissAndrya

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    Pretty much what I said too.
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  20. TreHolla

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    disrespectful how?

    why in the world would i be offended or disrespected, if a dude somehow expressed that he's sexually attracted to the woman I'm with?

    i'm thinkin hell yeah! that's part of the reason why we're together!
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