(for the time being of course, not for the rest of my life) Me and this dude really saw eye to eye on a lot of things, and I even thought when it came down to "us" but I was dead wrong. In my eyes we had a platonic friendship to describe it as briefly as possible; he was like a friend I could talk to and chill with, but no relationship. Why? I enjoy my freedom. In his eyes he sees me as his dream girl and has for years but it's unfair to him b/c he thinks he's worth me being in a relationship with. He's offended now and clearly "heartbroken" but I've explained this to him many times before that I don't see myself being with someone anytime soon & I STILL manage to be labeled the one who is wrong. I honestly don't believe I led him on but I'll take the blame anyway. I guess this is another testament of why folks shouldn't waste their time in the 'friend zone'. If my friendship is not enough don't bother.