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  1. UnbrokeN

    UnbrokeN Well-Known Member

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    is it culturally more accepted for women to be homosexual/bisexual than their male counterparts?

    why the double standart?
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  2. Hidden_Poetry

    Hidden_Poetry New Member

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    I can't say why---but I can say I'd rather see two lesbians (not butch ones eww) than to see two gay men. I don't know why??? [dunno] just the way I feel.
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  3. Short2003

    Short2003 AbsoluteHotness

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    I don't have an answer for this either.. I agree with Nanijah but I can't say why.. Male butt sex is violent or something.. Im totally not into anal so maybe that is why.. I really don't know..lol
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  4. UnbrokeN

    UnbrokeN Well-Known Member

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    well..i do actually know why it is culturally more accepted for women..

    but im trying to gather peoples thoughts..

    so you dont think lesbian sex can be violent? one word: Strap On.
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  5. Hidden_Poetry

    Hidden_Poetry New Member

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    A strap on is not violent.

    Two men kissing, or touching in any way is disturbing to me. I know it's wrong to feel this way. But it just is. I shouldn't base my facts on just finding something disturbing. But I do, just the way it goes LOL.

    I have no problem seeing two girls kiss, hold hands, touch each other. It's whatever to me. Not a big deal. *shurgs*
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  6. Short2003

    Short2003 AbsoluteHotness

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    Well all sex can be violent, I was just being silly.. Males aren't "supposed" to be penetrated, it's been like that forever.. Maybe that is why it's more acceptable for woman..

    If you know, please tell us b/c we obviously don't know what it is..
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  7. Short2003

    Short2003 AbsoluteHotness

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    We're baffled
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  8. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    Definitely more acceptable for women. Probably because we live in a society ran by men so whatever they think is "hot" sexually is A-Okay in their book. Also because society probably feels that it is more likely for a woman to fall in love with someone of the same sex than a man to do so because men are looked at as creatures lacking those emotions. It sucks, but seems to follow suit.
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  9. UnbrokeN

    UnbrokeN Well-Known Member

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    well.. theres a lot more to it..

    men arent supposed to be penetrated..right.

    from beginning of time males were raised to be strong and breadwinners of family, and they usually are taught to be competitive towards other males, and not have sex with them...large parts of society will always be anti male homosexuality, simply because heterosexual men build the foundation of all society...

    its still mostly men who decide whats politically correct or marketable, or just the ''in'' thing to do. because men tend to be turned on by two women having ''sex'', they generally dont mind lesbianity (although most real lesbians dont look nothing like they would even find remotely attractive). and because women usualy dont mind either lesbians or male homosexuals, lesbians have no significant enemy at all.


    but what im trying to say is, just because heterosexual men (the leaders) dont approve of male homosexuality but dont mind lesbianity..it doesnt make lesbianity any less biologically useless and redundant or perverted (the common anti homo slogans) than male homosexuality unless you wanna argue that female homosexuality is ''normal'' and part of most women's emotional ground, while male homosexuals are a sub culture of men who were either made into homosexuals by environmental or genetical factors (a genetic anaomaly?)


    this is really more difficult than i previously thought---
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  10. UnbrokeN

    UnbrokeN Well-Known Member

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    haha mist beat me to it..yeah..short and sweet.
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  11. Hidden_Poetry

    Hidden_Poetry New Member

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    Good way to look at it. Makes sense too.
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  12. thedream233

    thedream233 Thrillmatic

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    correct!

    Hetero Men rule the world. Its all about what we like.
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  13. SuB zer0

    SuB zer0 A.D.R.I.A.N.N.A

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    cause gay men is just fuckin sick lol
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  14. SuB zer0

    SuB zer0 A.D.R.I.A.N.N.A

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    but another reason is NOBODY

    wants 2 see gay men fuckin except gay men

    two str8 women in this thread alone

    said they rather see to women 2gether then 2 men

    maybe if women liked to see 2 men

    as much as men like 2 see 2 women

    it would be more even [dunno]
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  15. UnbrokeN

    UnbrokeN Well-Known Member

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    of course women dont like to see two men they like their men strong and hetero--. while two women dont affect them much
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