Why would I enjoy being used and getting taken advantage of

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  1. P. Chase

    P. Chase Well-Known Member

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    I need to realize that

    It's fucked

    I need to get away from this girl
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  2. King Dex

    King Dex Neos Helios

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    I think something really traumatic happened to you. Even before the head injury I thought so.

    You're the kind of person who would legitimately be best served seeing a professional.
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  3. Shadow

    Shadow Kotaro's Master

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    Personally, to add on to Dex, probably stemmed from something traumatic that happened which is causing you to 'need' the attention of a woman, whether positive or negative. Perhaps neglected as a child, or something of that nature that is leaving you to yearn for such comfort.
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  4. L u c y

    L u c y (Administrator) SWERVE

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    I'm just glad you started to see what was clear to everyone else. Good luck Papes, stay strong about it.
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  5. MissBreezy

    MissBreezy The God Pestilence

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    I don't think you like it.

    I think you settle for it if it means someone is spending time either with you or talking to you.

    See, if you don't let it happen, you have fewer people around......and since you want people around, you let it happen.

    STOP THE INSANITY!
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  6. DaAlmightyDolla

    DaAlmightyDolla Greatness

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    this is what happens when you dont breastfeed
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  7. King Dex

    King Dex Neos Helios

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    Not to pry too much, but just some armchair psychology...

    I remember you saying years ago that your biological father wasn't in your life and you had an adversarial relationship with you stepdad/really close bff relationship with your mom.

    I don't think you ever truly separated from your mother. And subconsciously, I think you may resent and blame her for shit.

    You're looking for that part-time bff/mommy figure. And you want to be punished for that subconscious resentment. Hence, your whipping boy relationship with women. Hence, the fascination with BDSM/being dominated by a woman you made a thread about.
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  8. King Dex

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    Freud was a hack.
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  9. P. Chase

    P. Chase Well-Known Member

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    Aight I'm really buggin

    But she said we can still hang out and that she is gonna be my aid on Sunday

    I'm just so much happier when I'm with her
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  10. Shadow

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    Would she hang out with you if you didn't "smoke her out"?
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  11. King Dex

    King Dex Neos Helios

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    It's almost like dealing with chick psychology.
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  12. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    Dudes, i think paper masterbates to these threads....

    its like he gets off telling us this stuff and hearing our advice...

    i think hes masterbating right now...

    ew!
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  13. King Dex

    King Dex Neos Helios

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    As long as my brilliance is the focus...
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  14. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    *waits for arguments to start about whos advice he masterbates more vigorously too
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  15. P. Chase

    P. Chase Well-Known Member

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    Lol wtf

    I don't jerk off to this shit

    Shadow she has chilled with me before when we didn't blaze once
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  16. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    its the only explanation
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  17. Twamp

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    Lol seems like it.
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  18. Shadow

    Shadow Kotaro's Master

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    I mean now. With everything that has happened, will she stick around if you say no weed?
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  19. DannyC

    DannyC Stay golden, pony boy.

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    to answer the thread title, its because youre a fucking moron and she knows it.
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  20. AliceHouse

    AliceHouse The House Always Wins

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    I'm not sure I understand the question. Could you elaborate?
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