There's NOTHING more admirable than a woman who raises her children. It's ONLY a full time job if she's actually raising them and not dropping them off at school from 7am-3pm to let other people teach them and then returning home to sit on her ass in front of a computer where she argues with strangers. THAT is NOT raising your children. If she were actually teaching them herself and raising them herself, then I could see a reason for her to be home all day. If she's not, then work. Get of your lazy ass and do something instead of living off your husband.