Why Guys Dump Girls They Dig

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  1. mr.rip

    mr.rip New Member

    Dec 23, 1999
    I don't agree with all of it lol

    1. The Timing Is Off
    Women get serious when they meet the right man. Men get serious with whomever we happen to be dating when we're finally ready to settle down.

    2. We're Not Finished Playing the Field
    Men are natural-born one-uppers. If there's a possibility of upgrading what we already have for something better (that'll make our friends drool), we say, bring it on! So we wind up always wondering if you're really as good as it gets. (I know, scumbag mentality.)

    3. We're Fixated on the Worst-Case Scenario
    From the times you chastise us for leaving a wet towel on the bed to those nights you rip through a pint of fudge ripple without stopping to breathe, we file each incident in a mental folder labeled "Evidence She'll Change for the Worse." We flip through that file whenever we're trying to decide if we want to hang on to the relationship.

    4.We're in Like, Not in Love
    It's harsh but true. In fact, it's probably the most common reason we bolt. Just because a guy likes you a lot isn't a guarantee that it will evolve into love. And we're surprisingly intuitive when it comes to figuring out a girl's potential on this front.

    5. We're Too into You
    Just when you thought it was all bad news, here's a hard-to-fess-up admission: Guys are protective of their emotions. Translation: We're scared spitless of being hurt. So, if we start to feel like we're getting into a situation where we'll be destroyed if you dump us, we might launch a preemptive strike and yank the plug first.

    6. There is a phobia of commitment in men and to escape from this vicious circle of commitments, dumping is an effective solution. Also, if a man is used to get whatever he wants from a woman and suddenly the woman is asking for commitment, the man would not give any second thoughts about the relationship. Also, men don’t like to be pressurized for anything and especially not for marriage.

    7. The ever enticing "SEX" also plays a vital role in breaking off a relationship, as the moment a man gets a feel of bad sex life, he would definitely say goodbye to the woman. (So, all you ladies out there! Even if you are having a terrible sex life but want to continue the relationship, then never let your man get the feel of how "impotent" he is, on the contrary, make him realize how "important" he is.)

    8. The difference in Attitudes and Values also play a very significant role in men dumping women. As men usually don’t want a dominating spouse,(except sometimes in bed), however, if a woman completely subdues her attitude, then the man would find her boring as well as unchallenging. So, it is a double-edged sword.

    9. Also "Infidelity" is an all very important reason for men dumping women. No living thing likes to be cheated and especially, men are too very concerned about the "faithfulness" of their spouse, but if they smell "something fishy", then their next step would be to move on.

    10. No Man likes a nagging partner, and many of the women are in the habit of doing nothing except nagging and nagging on. Men feel trapped in a water tight compartment just at the thought of their nagging spouse and just want to live their life with freedom.

    11. Men usually just don’t like to be with someone over-possessive. Men, like every human being, want a bit of space and if they are denied this, then men dump women.
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