Why don't some females orgasm during sex??

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  1. sweet_I

    sweet_I New Member

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    ^but I'm a freak anyway, right Gorilla Nasty? :wink: LOL
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  2. Ignorant

    Ignorant Village Idiot

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    ^You ever participated in a three-some?
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  3. Gorilla Nasty

    Gorilla Nasty I'm lame TBH

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    If you're the right girl I'm thinking of I've heard you say quite a bit of freaky things. Now I've been known to get people mixed up so IDK. Here goes:

    Anal Sex
    Sexual Toys
    Fantasizes about group sex (to put it lightly)

    I'm pretty sure those were all from you. Nothing wrong with those and I'm not name calling. You do seem kind of perverse IMO, but it's kind of hot :wink:
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  4. sweet_I

    sweet_I New Member

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    Ok, Gorilla, I'll take it as a compliment LOL

    No, Ignorant, I have never had a 3-some, but as Gorilla said, it is a fantasy of mine...
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  5. Ignorant

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    It takes more than just liking sex a lot to be a freak... too many people got it twisted. Real freaks have had at least one group sex episode.
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  6. sweet_I

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    See, not a freak :)
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  7. Ignorant

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    Do you wanna be one?

    I'm recruiting all through the spring.

    Send your head shots to freakydeaky@oohahh.org(y)
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  8. sweet_I

    sweet_I New Member

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    LOL I don't think my husband would like that very much
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  9. Ignorant

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    My wife wouldn't either... that's why we won't tell them.
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  10. sweet_I

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    Sorry Ignorant, I didn't mean to leave you hanging...so who would the 3rd person be? Now, the fantasy is 2 guys...I might do a chick, but not just any chick, I have high expectations
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  11. Civilian2004

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    iono. i know my girlfriend tells me she used 2 have a hard time reachin orgasm in previous sexual relationships. i spend more time focusing on her getting hers than i do on gettin my nut off so i guess that helps.
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  12. PinkcHica

    PinkcHica hip hop addict

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    foreplay is sooo important. some guys just wanna stick it in and NOO such a turnoff.
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  13. B. Fury

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    Funny hearing that...I haven't been with a whooooole bunch of women, but every chick I smashed had an orgasm during sex. Sometimes, my first girlfriend would have one right before having sex, though. Hmm...interesting.
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  14. sweet_I

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    ^faking an orgasm is easy and probably very common
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  15. B. Fury

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    Yeah that's true, too. But I would think theatrics is for girls, not grown women.
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  16. sweet_I

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    It isn't theatrics...

    Some guys can't stand when a chick doesn't orgasm and he doesn't understand it. Some guys will want to know whats wrong or what he did wrong when it really wasn't his fault. Some guys will get matcho about it and want to make her orgasm even after she feels like it was enough. Some guys have fragile egos...so women will fake it for the guy's sake as well as her own.
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  17. B. Fury

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    Yeah, it can really depend on the guy, but I see what you're sayin'.
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  18. Short2003

    Short2003 AbsoluteHotness

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    I didnt see this until now.. No, I do not...
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  19. Ignorant

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    I don't understand that... maybe for a one-night stand, but not a relationship... why continue to put up with bad sex just because you don't want to hurt his feelings? If you're honest, you'll save yourself a lot of disappointment and can try to work on the problem together.

    Really, I don't think it's ultimately up to the guy in order for a woman to orgasm during intercourse... good sex is all mental... or it could be that the two just aren't sexually compatible... ie., he might be too small/too big for her, their styles may differ, etc... every chick I've been with hasn't been able to make me cum and I've faked it, as well, just so it could be over and I could jack off later to save myself from blue balls... because females' egos are just as fragile as men's
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  20. Ignorant

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    Do you masturbate?

    And if you do, do you stick with just manual, outside stimulation of the clitoris or do you penetrate yourself with your fingers or other phallic objects?

    I seriously believe the conditioning aspect shouldn't be ignored.
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