Discussion in 'Man Enough' started by Exposed1, Mar 4, 2012.
Huh? Either you do or you don't, why do you?
I don't because I'm a man and not a boy.
The last time I cheated was when I was like 13/14.
When I'm attracted I fuck.
When I tire of her, I send her on her way and find a new Woman. No need to cheat, I don't give a damn what a woman or man thinks about my erections!
When she's no longer of physical or emotional use, I send her on her way and wish her good luck.
But I don't cheat, no point to hide shit, this is what I want, why hide?
Nope...Cheating is a bit cowardice tbh
No, it's done for a variety of reasons and guess what!!! Some times it's because the other girl was better. Some times it's because the man just can. Some times it's because the man is insecure. Some times its because he's fallen in love with the other girl. Some do it for sport but if you're in a relationship with some one like that - you're at fault. That nigga is just doing him. I very much doubt he ever really wanted a relationship. He just got comfortable.
I know it's easier for you to believe that it's all just a sport because it makes you completely blameless but it's not.
Still, those are poor reasons to begin with.
And you can't put the blame on anyone else, but on the person who cheats.
I don't care. I'm merely offering alternative reasons as to why people cheat. I'm not engaging you on the trivial assignment of blame because I'm not in here to make myself feel better. I'm merely telling you that you're utterly wrong to think it's solely an issue of sport.
Finding out that your partner is unhappy with you is shitty. But if that break down happened then it was always going to happen one way or another and it was always going to be shitty.
Why NOT cheat? shits fun. and the rewards are awesome.
For some reason I don't think Tiger Woods would agree...
He's paying for it big time.
but men/women who just wanna have an orgasm and have no will power cheat, also the sense of danger or doing something scandalous may turn them on. They could have mother/father issues, their current partner could be terrible in bed, or incapable of pleasing them sexually.... there are many reasons.
whether or not you consider them valid or good is the question. Im pretty sure everyone is capable of cheating on their mate. But its all about the self conscious side. If your conscience bugs you enough you probably wont. If you can push it aside, you just might.
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