Why are some women so bitter, mean, and hateful? undecided Granted not all of you behave this way and I am thankful for you all! innocent I am specifically speaking about the women that are miserable because of their circumstances, that are a reflection of the actions and choices they have made in their lives. Mean towards everyone they come in contact with. You know what I mean the ones that when you look in their direction to speak and acknowledge them as person in your presence they snarl or scowl! (The famous what the f*^(k you looking @ look)lips-are-sealed Hateful just full of it and every statement is hateful.