I'm looking at something like... settle down in your late 20's early 30's (no this does not mean marriage) and kids like late 30's early 40's? its probably not a good idea in any event to plan a relationship; you should just let things happen but then my great fear is to settle down way too early and worse have kids too early i don't even look grown how can i have a kid and i look like a kid. i know this girl who feels anxiety because she is 25 w/ no kids yet and its like driving her to the point of losing her mind chasing spiritual alternatives and drastic lifestyle changes i was like... [youtube]8UubRLo4jOY[/youtube] i don't know why but it seems girls want to settle down + have kids way too early. like you don't you realize you still have to see the world (foreign countries) and experience more things. i know everybody by now has seen everybody facebook/myspaces of everybody you went to high school w/ and like 70%-80% everybody has kids now at like 22 yo umm... what you think?