Discussion in 'The Alley' started by Tao_Ren, Dec 1, 2010.
u scurred lil budy?
All right, if you say.
And you should be. It's rare to see people talk to one another on here.
It shouldnt be , tbh .
Most people wont let the guard down one second , to just exchange normally .
Way too worried about maintaining their gimmicks .
^ what gimmick?
i let my guard now problem...
You dont really have one , except being drunk every night .
What i said doesnt concern anyone here tho .
Specially not lp , guy not shy about admitting anything .
I agree 100%. Oh, the places we would go if people relaxed. It's as if they don't want to do anything but fit this narrow image.
Fuck it, you better not be some stupid alias...
when u r as cool as me.. ur flaws are ur strengths.
Not a damn alias , lol .
People are paranoid .
Just saying... because you're kind of being awesome right now.
Just being truthful .
Oh no, I choose girls wisely. At least the ones I give myself to.
The point is that regardless of how high the quality of chick, 99% of the time, completely revealing who you are will leave you open to regret. Everyone has regrets when it comes to relationships, unless you never really devoted yourself to one.
And yes, I do have trust issues, but I never let it get in the way of giving myself to a woman. I don't regret falling love, or being a relationship, or any of that, I regret thinking that we would be together for the rest of my life and acting accordingly. I'm a bit of sucker for love, and it never fails to bite me in the ass.
It will for you too, trust me.
Go ahead and keep thinkin' like that brother. It'll give you some great life experiences.
Becoming jaded is inevitable though.
quality post .
i wouldnt reveal everything about me , either . but in the moment , im comfortable enough to just let everything that wants to come out , come out .
meh , at one point you just have to trust the girl . i know that after a break-up , a lot of stuff that was dormant come out in the open and she might try to tell your friends or hers about it , but thats too childish for me to worry about .
Fair enough, but for me at least, the only things that "want" to come out are the things that are easiest to come out. A partner will always look for full disclosure in the other, and doing so, at the time, will seem right.
But when it's over, you might look back at that person and think, that person knows more about me than anyone else in the world, and now, we don't even like each other anymore.
I'm not saying I regret because they'll use it as ammo or tell people, I really don't care about that, it just takes time, effort, and a certain amount of trust to reveal oneself to another, and when the relationship was all for naught, it seems like a wasted experience.
I appreciate all the good times I've had with girls, but I don't like the fact that they are some of the few people in the world that see me for who I really am, yet now, we don't even speak.
Same here. Again, I don't care that one might use it as ammo, even though I know those girls wouldn't because it's not in their character (one of the reasons I dated them), it's the fact that they know me better than my mom does, and my mom would never walk away.
Then again, that's probably a problem of my own, rather than a problem that arose because of them.
took me untill about 1k posts for people to decide i wasnt some kinda ski gimmick alias.. people accused me of being half the members no the boards over the year or so it took me to get 1k posts.
give everyone the benefit of the doubt now cuz of it
get used to it for now tho
only took me a day not to be considered an alias
^you have tits and i have a penis
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