I dig what you are saying and she should probably take you advice over mine. My analysis seems to work better for me though because I feel like I have a pretty good grasp on everything in my life (not trying to take anything away from anyone). I just hope that she and pretty much everyone can get to a point in their lives where I am at because I feel like I am in control of everything that effects me and what I do that effects others. At the same time I am very care-free of stuff that doesn't effect me which means nothing really seems to get me extremely emotional whether thats in a good or bad way. I feel very neutral and as a result there is always focus in my life. So, with that being said, I wouldn't feel the need to cut back on certain indulgences because if a problem should occur in my life mentally or whatever I am confident that I can identify the problem and correct it promptly. A lot of people aren't very in-tune with their self like that and they might not be able to indentify an internal issue even when it's pretty obvious what that issue is and how to fix it. I believe everyone is capable of identifying the problem and fixing it but the reason why they don't apply that ability is more than likely the source of the problem in the first place. So the best advice I can give anyone is to really take a good look at yourself and ask yourself do you know who you are and why you do the things that you do? Misskey is taking that first step into finding out all the answers she needs to know but the key is to take it seriously and make sure you have covered all the areas you need to do so.