What are some reasons people cheat?

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  1. Joro

    Joro New Member

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    You'd be surprised how many 50-year marriages had unknown affairs that were carried to the grave.

    I wouldn't be tho.
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  2. GaLaTeA

    GaLaTeA Well-Known Member

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    ..no, i actually wouldn't either, but nowdays, it's harder for cheaters to keep their affairs hidden.
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  3. Joro

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    Not everybody is as dumb as Tiger Woods. It's not hard to keep your jumpoffs out of the digital world.

    Look, I know you'd like to put an end to world-cheating. But I don't think it's gonna happen. Ridding the world of poverty would be much easier. Let's focus on that.
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  4. Freebass

    Freebass NAH NUDDAH

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    co-dependancy mixed with mental exaustion, anticipation, boredum, and isolation......together or seperate
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  5. GaLaTeA

    GaLaTeA Well-Known Member

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    Are you speaking from experiences?

    Who quit and made me the "let's save the world person"?


    ...heavy.
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  6. Joro

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    Of course not I would never cheat. C'mon Gal, you should know me by now.

    But players know the rules to the game, anyhow. Simple things. Like if you're in a relationship but go to the club on your own to hunt, never use your real name. :funny:
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  7. GaLaTeA

    GaLaTeA Well-Known Member

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    ...:eek:hwell:
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  8. Joro

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    ...No one has to get hurt, Gal.

    So if you do cheat, be smart. Cuz if your lover finds out you're scum. A low-down, piece of shit, good-for-nothing, ...
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  9. GaLaTeA

    GaLaTeA Well-Known Member

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    C'mon Joro, you should know me by now. There are things I'll never resort to, and cheating is certainly one of them.
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  10. Joro

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    I didn't mean YOU. I meant generally. "no one has to get hurt" was what was addressed to you. I know you're staunchly against cheating.

    Let me ask you this tho: What if you're in a relationship and meet someone else and your passion for this new flame compels you to break up with your lover. Would you feel guilty?
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  11. GaLaTeA

    GaLaTeA Well-Known Member

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    Breaking a relationship for the purpose of instant gradification sounds like weak sauce. And you know my stance on that, hell you even made me jog for paragraphs.

    I wouldn't feel guilty, since I'd never go for a random stranger, nor "someone else".
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  12. Joro

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    So every relationship you're in your mind is set on making it last throughout eternity?

    Wait ... have we talked about this before?
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  13. GaLaTeA

    GaLaTeA Well-Known Member

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    Eternity is an exaggerated time span.

    Unlike most, I wouldn't jump in a relationship I'd know wouldn't last.

    ...nah, I don't believe we have.
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  14. Joro

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    so is casual sex an oxymoron to you?

    A long time ago I used to think like you. Then I lost my virginity.
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  15. GaLaTeA

    GaLaTeA Well-Known Member

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    ...is this one of those moments where you give me the ever wise and brilliant elderly "and I had to walk 843965043652634543438 miles in each direction" talk?
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  16. Joro

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    nah I just wanted to know if you went through life without casual relationships. Cuz it sounds like you do. Every guy has to be marriage material or you won't jump in. And once you're in, you're in all the way.

    You're principled, Gal. And you're romantic in your own way. You are a rare and delicate flower. My "wisdom" could only do you harm. :(
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  17. lyricalpriest

    lyricalpriest Rap Games Dawson Creek

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    bottom line people cheat for one reason lack of respect towards themselves their partner and the person they fucking..
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  18. zyclon B gas

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    cowardly faggot who isn't in love with their partner anymore, and won't leave them or discuss their feelings, yet wants the security of having someone there at the end of the day.

    then when their partner finds out and goes psycho and kills them, everyone pisses on his/her grave.
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  20. Freebass

    Freebass NAH NUDDAH

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    agree
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