It has no gender. It knows no dualities. It is pure will, pure energy that gives form and motion to everything you see. Including you. It is the Tao. If you're humble, if you're mindful, if you're optimistic, if you abandon the urges of ego and acknowledge that the self is illusory and you're body is merely a vessel of that divine will, if you move just as unconsciously as you breathe - God will put you where you need to be. You can forge your own destiny with the muscle and brawn of ego, sure. But discontent will always follow you. If you let go of the "I", let go of the idea that you're an individual separate from the macrocosm, if you move effortlessly like water and in harmony with the true essence of shit - everything will fall into place naturally and you'll find true happiness in this world. You suffer because you cling. To ego, to the empty concept of the self, to your vanity, to the idea that you're a branch splintered off from the tree.