Granted, but it would directly invole me and would thus be "my business," which I could share if I chose to. I also think it will vary from person to person (and therefore, relationship to relationship). Moreover, when relationships get more serious, I think the rules change a bit. Details become more confidential and I believe both parties want to keep most things within the confines of their relationship. I've noticed that when things are still new, or it's a fling, women (speaking from experience) want to gush about it. These are actually the situations that I was referring to in my post, not the full-blown, fully-devoted type of relationship. If this was the case, then I agree that these things are best left between lovers and their sheets.