Telling your man's buisness ..

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  1. Jade Phoenix

    Jade Phoenix JaDeD

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    Damn .. I got some friends who tell everything about their man sexuallly & ever other way possible. One of my girlfriends tells me everytime her & her man have sex, what he does, for how long, etc ..

    am I the only one who thinks its wrong to tell all your mans buisness?
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  2. Hidden_Poetry

    Hidden_Poetry New Member

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    I don't really think it's wrong, but I don't do it. I mean, I might say lil things here and there. But I'm not about to give details. Nor do I wanna really hear details from them lol.

    Some ppl are just right out there. My sister is one of those ppl. And to be honest, it's kinda disturbing sometimes. More so when she's telling our parents---ugh---yeah, NASTY!
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  3. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    if the only business your man has that's worth telling involves the bedroom, you need a new man LoL

    jp.

    real talk, i keep all the sex chit chat to a minimum. comments are made here and there when my friends and i do dip into the "lets talk about sex" pot. But even then, i don't talk too much...because knowing most of my scandalous friends they'd be the main bitch tryin to hop on his shit, and im not havin it. at all.

    outside of all that, it's none of their business. it's personal to me. Now i can gossip it up about someone else's business LoL...but mine?? no sir.
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  4. Short2003

    Short2003 AbsoluteHotness

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    I used to gab all about it when I was like 17-21, now I dont say anything.. No one elses business.. Plus, I wouldnt like it if he told his friends so I wouldnt do that to him..
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  5. The girls are talkin the girls are talkin...
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  6. Konscious

    Konscious Resident Sage

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    Why don't those girls just say... "please fuck my man, please!!"

    That's essentially what you're doing when you're discussing the sex.
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  7. UnbrokeN

    UnbrokeN Well-Known Member

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    thats a nono..
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  8. .+*MiXd_BeBeQ*+

    .+*MiXd_BeBeQ*+ ReMi-Da dRuNkn pRiNcEsS

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    no need to get into detail lol. thats kinda wierd. like "then he pulled out and came all over my face" LOL
    not necessary at all. i might talk about me and my man having sex and whatnot but i wouldnt feel comfortable telling my girls about everything we do. they already think i am crazy enough lol
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  9. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    When it comes to sex... they know we do it, and that he keeps a smile on my face... and that's all them heffas need to know!

    Only my closest friends know intimate details.. and even then, they only know general details about me - what I like, how I felt, things I want to try, etc - nothing really specific about things he and I do... I don't give those kind of details about him, I respect his privacy.
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  10. Jade Phoenix

    Jade Phoenix JaDeD

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    Exactly. I know most women wouldnt be happy if their man told their boys about every little intiimate detail she did you know..
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  11. Konscious

    Konscious Resident Sage

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    ^Guys don't do that when it comes to our main squeezes... now hoes?? They get dragged through the gutter.
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  12. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    I agree with what Tight said. Theres only so much that needs to be said.
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  13. MistaChipz

    MistaChipz New Member

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    SOOOOO TRUE.....none of my bois speak on their GF's.....but they talk hella grimey about the gurls they mess with on the side...lol

    ohhh u didnt knoe ladies, yeaa, most guys(atleast the ones I know) got a gurl on the side...
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  14. shiseido

    shiseido New Member

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    ^^That's just wrong..
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  15. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    And you're how old? You're either really young or you surround yourself with men than have no morals.
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  16. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Women are pretty similar int hat regard... I think women are more apt to go into details when dude was just some random piece.

    Especially if he was a bad lay - "giiiiirl, the dick was straight TRASH... that nikka couldn't blah blah blah and only lasted blah blah blah". And when it's good, we get the gorey details, too - "giiiiiirl, let me tell YOU... that nikka had me speakin in tongues... he does this thing with his tongue and... giiiiiirl blah blah blah".

    Sometimes I have to cover my ears... women can be so crass, you guys just don't know... lol!
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  17. Konscious

    Konscious Resident Sage

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    ^Yeah, I know...

    Jerry: Oh, women don't talk about that stuff.

    George: Yes, they do... and they're WORSE!!

    An episode of Seinfeld when George had the "shrinkage" thing going on and his girlfriend caught him... "I was in the pool!!!!"

    Guys don't really get graphic no more, unless it was really special or something... like if she gave a mind-blowing blowjob and swallowed or something like that.

    From my experience, guys talked about it more when they're young (under 18) and aren't used to gettin' a whole lot... so every piece is like an event.
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  18. VishTaphney

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    word...I am with ya on that


    some chicks in here saying its not wrong lol..

    for those girls who say it aint wrong how would you feel if your man was talking about something you trusted him with to his boys? not good...id feel strange or weird like no trust at all.

    if he is your man he deserves that respect...if your talking about your sex acts, his dick, all this shit to your girlfriends who would proabally snake you aint mature enough for a loving relationship.;
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  19. SuB zer0

    SuB zer0 A.D.R.I.A.N.N.A

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    but men are dogs?

    u cant even trust ur own kind

    yall have NO loyality what so ever

    i trust my best homie with my wifey/babymama naked

    i dont even see how female friendships work
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  20. Predator INC

    Predator INC New Member

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    lol yeah this nigga from l.a anyway yeah id probably break up with a broad if she brought that shit up. just keepin it real.
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