Discussion in 'Ladies Lounge' started by Radium, Jul 20, 2009.
112 - Anywhere
Straight FuckIng by The Transition
would you mind by Janet Jackson
ice cream by J.S.
Get you open by skin deep
freak you by Jodeci
who's is it by ready for the world
sex me by R.Kelly
Freak me baby by Silk
i'll go down on my knees by Montell Jordan
butterscotch by Keith sweat
if i was your girlfriend by Ashanti
Ride tonight by adina howard
I would have done the link thing, but at lot of stuff is blocked here in UK at the moment ;-(
A Night Off - Drake
Can You Handle It - Usher
Say Yes - Floetry
Imagination - Floetry
Come In - Day 26
i know you all have a playlist on iTunes for this very reason...right? or is that just me...?
I don't have sex to music... when I was a non-pussy gettin' bastard in high school, I would imagine the songs I would play if I actually got any, because I still considered sex surreal or "dreamy"... back then it was all about Silk, Jodeci, Boyz II Men, etc... but ever since I started fuckin' off the charts, I could care less about music or setting any type of mood... my dick sets the mood... lights, no lights, tv on, tv off, I could care less... if she needs relaxing, I'm excellent at foreplay, so that's a check... once I get stroking, that's the only rhythm that needs to be heeded.
And Sami here is a couple of my playlists so you are not the only one.
Aw damn, nice list^ but it just reminded me I never did get that Tweet album, that IS the one that features "Oops/oh my" is'nt it (tune!!!!)
Yeah that's the one. Actually that album in itself is good to listen to for booty time. And I love some Sade too so keep that in mind too guys. I don't listen to music much during sex though but it's always good for at least getting the mood right for a lucky participant.
creativity is king when it comes to sex after 20.
^I'm kinda in between the spectrum with your rebuttle. I don't think it has to be as effortless as Iggy is implying but it doesn't have to be too creative either. Put it like this. You have to have some intrigue about yourself that attracts a woman to want to have sex with you on top of the physical aspect and that's all the creativity that's required though.
well I'm not 20 yet, and music certainly "gets ME in the mood".Maybe its the JA blood in my veins lol
the number one relationship killer is boredom
as soon as you get bored is as soon as you
1. start to begin thinking about cheating
2. get tired of everything the other person has to say because you already know everything theyre going to say anyway
so creativity is everything. the only problem is doing that without forcing it because then you become tacky which is the runner up relationship killer to boredom
haa what u know about it
That's EXACTLY how I feel... it's on some "young" shit.
Music is needed to soothe apprehensions that teens feel towards sex, particularly young girls... the fellas don't mind because they'd do anything to get some, but once you get older, you can take it or leave it.
It has nothing to do with creativity... I've done rose petals on the bed, scented candles, and ocean waves... that's more creative than puttin' on some slow R&B.
lol@iggy breaking out the rose petals just so she cant say no..ocean waves? [funny]
you tryin to have sex meditation? id feel like a prick trying to hump to the sound of seagulls. but do you.
having sex to music isnt for teenagers only. on the basis of what?? that only young people listen to music? that only young people have sex? no and no. aint nothin childish about it.
na see what do YOU know bout that. man that shit is sexy than a mug to me. it puts me in the mood to get it in.
I see your perspective Iggs, bc its not often that I plan my sexual encounters. But when I do, I dun see anything wrong with setting a tone or a mood. I'm not gonna go all out and put flower petals on the bed for my man. But if he hears "A Night Off" when he walks in the door, then sees me in some new shit from Fredericks then he knows what he's in for. it adds something...everyone gets off to something.
I think its moreso the thought that counts. I doubt anyone truly needs the rhythm of music in order to have sex/make love
i dun see the problem. to each his/her own...
Maybe it's because I don't plan sex... whenever I get the urge, I just grab her and start poking... even when I was dating, I never planned it... the most I did was make sure the crib was clean, no dirty dishes in the sink, no funky smells in the place, sheets clean... then it usually start with playful touching, teasing, etc... if Wu-Tang is already playing on the system, then that's what we bone to... or if the tv is tuned to the SportsCenter, I don't care... or sometimes, I'll turn everything off... I like the raw sounds of sex... the moans and ahhs, the "oww, that's my asshole, you jerk," the heavy breathing and such... that's what turns me on.
ok, i understand the detriment to anything done in excess but explain what is wrong in puttin in at least some thought when it comes to sex every once in a while...
like if it was the anniversary you're gonna make her bone to sportcenter bc thts what yall started watching after dinner?? Like, forreal...what's the harm?
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