My husband wants to go on a "boys only" trip, to Vegas with his dad(footing the ENTIRE bill) and older brother, both with very questionable characters. At first I said NO FUCKING WAY, the last time those two went to Vegas hookers were involved! He made some remarks about being trustworthy, and the stability of our relationship that were very predictable. I don't think it is fair to say that I don't trust my husband because I do. I trust him to be who he has been for the past 4 years and the man I know is not forthcoming about anything that reflects negatively upon him. I don't have a good feeling about the trip, but after a little bit of soul searching I felt guilty for projecting my insecurities onto him in a controlling manner. I don't want him to be his mother, I want to be his wife, I want him to respect me enough to stay faithful no matter where he is and who he is with because he loves me, not because he hasn't had the chance. At the same time I have a strong desire to protect the union I've sacrificed so much for. I really want a guy's opinion or I would have posted in Ladies Delight, so fellas be man enough and tell the truth... Can your wife/gf trust you in Vegas, no matter the circumstances?