sexual energy with nowhere to put it

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  1. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    ok so me and the squeeze have stopped having sex.

    We still like each other, so it's nothing like that, we just work odd schedules, and he works long shifts so we can never link up. I mean, we stopped hanging out a long time ago because of work, now sex is gone.

    i'm loosing my mind.

    I'm unnecessarily horny all the time, and I'm getting no release. My vibrator is obsolete at this point. I don't know what to do. I'm sort of afraid to have sex with him because I know he'll cum in like 2 minutes flat lol (whenever we have a hiatus its like that lol) and that'll just be a huge tease.

    I'm not sure what to do.

    does anyone have any ideas on how I can release some of my tension or channel some of this pent up energy/frustration??
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  2. Dark_Sun

    Dark_Sun Phantom of the Forums

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    This is too easy to reply to. So I will try a non obvious approach first. Exercising in times like this can be very productive. I don't know what your exercise regimen is like but it can always be better I suppose. One day you will realize if you take your mind off it and channel your energy into something else then you should be very productive in whatever that is. If all else fails just pm me your phone number and address and I will make other arrangements.
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  3. mr.rip

    mr.rip New Member

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    lol @ the last part hahaha

    sam just go to his job and take what's your lol say look nigga enough is a fucking nough lol then look him and the eye and take it in front of who ever is standing there lol. if that don't work there is always the old folks home lol
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  4. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    1. Why is the vibrator obsolete? I can't even imagine... lol

    2. Have you talked to him about it? Maybe you two can come up with an agreeable schedule, if you put your heads together.
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  5. Namor

    Namor Prodigal Sun-god

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    umm-why don't u guys just bone like 5 times in a row? yeah he''ll cum in two minutes the 1st time b/c he's backed up...


    but the second time he should go for at least 10min

    then the thrid time should be even longer....

    or you can always use those things on your hand called fingers...
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  6. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    Dark: Exercising might be a good way to channel my energy. Maybe some yoga? Oh! I could take up pole dancing! they're offering it at a local gym. That would be a great hybrid of releasing sexual energy and working out. great idea!

    Rip: dsfghjk. lol. He works at a Toy store so I highly doubt that would be appropriate lol...hhmm, there is a convalescent home around the corner. I'm sure some horny old man would love to bone me before he kicks the bucket lol

    Tights: girl yes! The vibrator is useless. Like, I get off, but the orgasms are so weak that I have to use it like, 3 times in a row just to feel satisfied. It's just not the same as a man, y'know? I dunno, maybe we could start to work something out now...it's just hard. we're never off on the same days - whenever I get off from work he's going to bed because he goes in to work way earlier than me - one of us is sick - there's just always something preventing us from doing the do! and i hate planning sex. It seems so...whack. like we're some old married couple. he's not even my boyfriend! maybe we should set a game plan...the madness has to stop lol

    Namor: I should have prefaced by saying that I'm the sex hound in this relationship. He's the one that tells me no. unfortunately, he's not one of those guys that can nut then keep going without getting soft. Anyway, we're always in such a time crunch we don't have time to lay down and have a real session/fuck fest. it has to be quick. and quickies aren't gonna cut the mustard. If I'm gonna get it, I need it the right way.

    I'm trying very very very hard to not outsource the job to an independent contractor, ya dig?

    I am a little worried though; last time I felt like this, I was in a LDR, and I got over it, but I got over it to the point where I didn't even want sex anymore. I hope I don't reach that point again. help please!
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  7. mr.rip

    mr.rip New Member

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    he tell you no lol oh hell naaaaaaaw who wearing the panties here haha. what wrong with him you a hot to death lol is he sick? what he be saying he got his period or some shit ?
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  8. ~S*T*A*R*M~

    ~S*T*A*R*M~ Goddess

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    I think you should just go for it. If he comes early, wait, and do it again. [dunno]
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  9. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    haha@the vibrator explanation.. Thats what I'm SAYING. Not even close to the same.

    lmao@outsourcing to an independent contractor.. You're hilarious!
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  10. Superman70

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    cheat on him.
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  11. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    ^^ that's exactly what I'm not trying to do (although it wouldn't be cheating since we're not together...but same diff) but I think that might be going down tonight-ish (yikes!)


    yes, Rip. He tells me no...I'm the hornball, and I'll be all over him and he'll be like "baby can I catch my breath?" like, he has to clean up and recharge his batteries to be back in the mood and by that time I'm over it.

    I can't do that stop and go sex. I need time and dedication lol.

    ok so new question: we're very honest with one another. He never makes me feel bad when I tell him the truth and he doesn't flip on me. But I don't want to hurt his feelings...how do you tell someone you like that you're about to have someone do his job since he's not handling business??

    I know that if he tried to tell me that I would not be feeling it. but I'm horny! what am I supposed to do...if someone could respond within the next half hour or so, that would be great...lol
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  12. Offbeat

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    ur a slut

    that is some shyt

    how bout u show some self control or are u incapable of that
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  13. Tha Cunnysmythe

    Tha Cunnysmythe Unsavoury Negroid

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    Buy a new vibrator.
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  14. Mr ExZ

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    the answer i have in mind was severly effected after i read

    i dont really understand that.. if we dont have somewhere to go immediately after havin sex.. im bound to hit it AT LEAST one more time..
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  15. Phusion

    Phusion WoW This Name is Old

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    You could always do your ex... [dunno]



















    LoL I'm sorry I thought that would be funny.

    What's Good With You? You didn't say happy birthday to me or nothing. It kinda hurt my feelings. :(
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  16. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    She's a slut because she admits she has a sex drive??

    Good lord and guys wonder why females won't be as "open" sexually as they are!?!
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  17. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    lmao that was funny

    what are you talkin about, I emailed you on the 13th (i know i was a day late)...check your gmail loser!

    @ Mist: thank you. I want to have sex with the guy I've been dating consistently for 3 months. I'm a super slut i guess [dunno]


    @ X: man you don't understand, we usually do have somewhere to be right after. he works like, 7 days a week, and 12 hour shifts on average . We don't even hang out let alone have sex.

    @ Cunny: I think you're right. It's time to upgrade the toy.

    UPDATE!

    ok, so on my lunch break yesterday and today I went to his house because he didn't have to go in until like 2 both days. So of course we go at it, and of course he came hella quick and gave me the "I'm sorry baby, I tried" line (he says it all the time) the first time. Today was not nearly as bad...I actually got off. BUT both times we then had to put on our clothes promptly and leave. I mean, this was our first couple times having sex in weeks so that's good, but this is still no bueno.

    I started writing some erotica and it has worked surprisingly well. I get horny, I write out some steamy scenario, and somehow, I get some gratification from it, and the horny feeling subsides. Its like I'm transferring my physical thing into a mental thing and once I get mental satisfaction I'm happy. it's weird...but it kinda works. I think this and a new dildo will do the trick lol
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  18. Offbeat

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    na

    this aint got shit 2 do with a sex drive

    its about no self control and steppin out on ur man

    thats the slutty part
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  19. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    ^^ I don't recall saying that I slept with anyone else for one, and for two, I don't recall saying I had a man. We're dating yes. exclusively? no.

    but, since you're the expert, I'll let you tell it. I'll be a slut then.
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  20. Dougie G

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    Tights: girl yes! The vibrator is useless. Like, I get off, but the orgasms are so weak that I have to use it like, 3 times in a row just to feel satisfied. It's just not the same as a man, y'know? I dunno, maybe we could start to work something out now...it's just hard. we're never off on the same days - whenever I get off from work he's going to bed because he goes in to work way earlier than me - one of us is sick - there's just always something preventing us from doing the do! and i hate planning sex. It seems so...whack. like we're some old married couple. he's not even my boyfriend! maybe we should set a game plan...the madness has to stop lol

    Reading thi9s was like Porn to me, I wish I was listening to a female use a vibrator three times in a row. Thats why I love this forum, I mean when I use to come on here as MC ENFERNO, all the guys would come in here.

    Ok well I think u should just do it with him, and when he cums quick, give him some time, and get right back to work.
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