"Secrets Of Meeting And Keeping A Great Man and Woman". I think it is derogatory...towards women. why is that women are losing out on a great guy... why is that men aren't losing out on a great woman? Instead...or, rather... Both? Losing out on each other... Why does "secrets"....point women out as the "sore losers" here? Women are responsible for not being able to "keep" a man because of "her" behaviors?