Ring worthy?

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  1. GaLaTeA

    GaLaTeA Well-Known Member

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    This thread is sparked by a convo had not that long ago, but essentially when do you guys know that your gf is ring worthy enough to propose/marry her?

    That is, if you'd consider getting married.
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  2. Shadow

    Shadow Kotaro's Master

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    when it feels right
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  3. GaLaTeA

    GaLaTeA Well-Known Member

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    But what defines/falls under "feels right", bauss?
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  4. Geedorah

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    When you know.
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  5. doslavozes

    doslavozes Neg This Post If You're Gay

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    If she plays video games with me.
    If she doesn't drag me to random social occasions where I have to meet people and pretend to be nice.
    If she lets me cheat. (just kidding...I don't ask for her permission)
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  6. doslavozes

    doslavozes Neg This Post If You're Gay

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    And it depends on her sandwich making skills too. If she can prepare em like a boss I'd wife that up for real. Not letting her go back to the free agent market.
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  7. Shadow

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    What he said
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  8. doslavozes

    doslavozes Neg This Post If You're Gay

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    It also depends on how good she is at waxing the candlestick. If she goes on it like she's trying to suck the paint off, that's wifey material. She's gotta be part stripper and part librarian. Kind of like Katherine Heigl with nerd glasses.
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  9. UnbrokeN

    UnbrokeN Well-Known Member

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    i dont know a ring worthy, but i do know Rick Worthy

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  10. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    ring worthy? guys dont think of this kind of crap

    and also i have no written checklist. If she farts and burps a lot and picks her nose. Yeah, then shes not marryable. Unless she has lots and lots of money.
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  11. TreHolla

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    i have a pretty simple test. if she did it, or was down for it, i'd know that we could make it.
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  12. JASON ANTHONY

    JASON ANTHONY White Devil

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    when she gets pregnant

    or never

    women cannot be trusted
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  13. MissBreezy

    MissBreezy The God Pestilence

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    I think in general, men are just comfortable with the companionship, whereas women want committment. Men and women are wired differently, so their needs are different.

    If I found myself single, I wouldn't marry again. I would be interested in a long term relationship, but in the end...a piece of paper doesn't make or break the bond.

    Girls are all about the fairy tale. Unfortunately, having been in the floral industry for 18+years and knowing many a couple who married....I've seen all too many marriages disintegrate after a year or two.
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  14. Geedorah

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    Should be in relationship 2-3 years before getting married.
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  15. MissBreezy

    MissBreezy The God Pestilence

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    I agree with this.

    As well as LIVE together. A couple def needs to find out if they CAN live together before marriage. They also need to find out if they are sexually compatable, none of this 'saving myself for marriage' bullshit.
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  16. Geedorah

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    At least half a year living together.
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  17. MissBreezy

    MissBreezy The God Pestilence

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    Minimum, yes. One to two years before marriage.
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  18. doslavozes

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    I agree, I don't think "love" and "compatible" are the same thing. Therefore you can love someone but still not be able to live with them. That's why I plan on waiting until later to ruin my life by getting married.
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  19. MissBreezy

    MissBreezy The God Pestilence

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    It doesn't ruin your life if you've taken the proper amount of time to get to know someone. Most marriages take place while still in the honeymoon stage, shit'd bound to fall apart then, especially if that haven't lived together etc..
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  20. doslavozes

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    My bad I forgot. It's the having kids part that ruins your life. Gotcha. :)
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