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Discussion in 'Ladies Lounge' started by Chokolate, Apr 29, 2005.

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  1. sagacious infant

    sagacious infant reflecting the sun

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    Y'all muphuqas kill me.

    That's not about being honest - that's about her personal business in taking the intiative to disclose that information. If someone else decides too - cool. But because someone doesn't post their number up here does NOT mean they are being dishonest. Hon...pleeeeeeeease - lol y'all kill me!
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  2. Hidden_Poetry

    Hidden_Poetry New Member

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    I wasn't dishonest....Said I've only been with one person :eek:) That's the truth. Going on 8yrs together [teet]
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  3. Hash Seeds

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    see, that's the exact same shit I was saying in the top 10 traits of a good g/f thread

    every girl on rm is fucking perfect


    in there past relationships, they never made any mistakes, they never nagged, were overprotective, jealous pyschopaths, got in relationships where money, cars, clothes were there motives


    naugh, not them

    that shit only happens offline

    I ain't saying every female here is lying, but damn near every female ain't telling the truth, every relationship ain't all peaches and cream with the big house with the front driveway and a picket fence surrounding it

    any relationship that ended, ended b'cuz the guy they were with was a bad guy, not b'cuz of any bad judgments and shit they made

    and I aint' trying to hear that it don't happen, cuz just a few days ago Short made a thread about guys breaking up with girls once they get attached, and she gone catch feelings the moment one guy walks up in there states "don't front, girls do it too"

    females got this preppy ain't shit wrong with me attitude, or ain't no guy gone tell me shit attitude on here, hell, love connection might as well stop taking request and look no further and just come here to draft there next contestants
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  4. Chokolate

    Chokolate Melts N Ya Mouth

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    I dont think that the females on rm act perfect most just arent as up front or open as me...I tell my tales in hopes that someone reads it and does not repeat the same mistakes that I have....I'm the first to admit I have done some wild stuff in the name of "love" I've busted out car windows, bleached clothes, fought chicks over my man, have been the other woman...I'm far from perfect but I learn from my mistakes...8+ years later my ole man is still riding with me inspite of all the crazy stuff I done when I was younger
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  5. Eddie EnyGma

    Eddie EnyGma pump.. pump.. pump it up!

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    this is the reply of a lieing skeeza who would never admit to being wit 20 dudes to her current man...
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  6. Hash Seeds

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    I'm sorry if I came off like harsh or what not


    For the most part I was just venting


    I'm not saying you or any female has to always be open b'cuz whatever information you choose to not give that's your prerogative


    I just hate when anyone puts on this illusion that they are this and that, and it only sets up a person for a disappointment when they find out the person just been putting on a front, also I think it gives people the notion that people are not going to like the real you if you tell them the truth, so in turn, it encourages people to pass off a false image to other people.

    But to answer the original title question, I dont' really care about the # of partners any girl has been with, I care more about how she carry herself and if she used protection in past relationship and if she is disease free.
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  7. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Chokolate didn't ask the women how many partners they'd had... she asked if they'd disclose the information to a partner who wanted to know... some women just felt like sharing that info with people here, while other's don't... it's not that serious.

    Guys come into this form all day talking shit and dissing the ladies but then turn around and complain about the women not wanting to share personal information with them... ummm... can we say "duuuuh"... the more you badger them, the less likely they are to open up and share things... it's not rocket science. Apparently you haven't put two and two together yet... if your intent in coming to this forum is to actually learn something about women, it might do you some good to shut the fuck up and actually listening sometimes instead of always trying to preach and tell us how to answer questions that we ask eachother.
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  8. sagacious infant

    sagacious infant reflecting the sun

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    You are SO right. Have you been talking to people I know in real time??? I've slept with over 20 dudes actually and I have never been compelled to tell the world until I read your response. I'm so ashamed of lieing to myself and the message board. I'm a whore.

    Will my honesty buy me net props? I hope so...it feels so good to get this off my skeezing chest.
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  9. Hash Seeds

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    but why cop an attitude though?


    and why would something like this even be embarrassing?


    I mean I totally understand that it's your prerogative to disclose any information, and you have every right not to, but to just refer to yourself as a whore, even if it's out of sarcasm is just lame.

    And no it will not buy u net props, but I just dont' get what's the deal with your response. See, that shit encourages people to only be untruthful in there responses in the future
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  10. Eddie EnyGma

    Eddie EnyGma pump.. pump.. pump it up!

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    net props?? what the fuck is u talkin bout?? and my bad sage infant, u have ova 13 grand in post, u prolly don't get dick, sorry i miss judged u...
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  11. DaDivaSiren

    DaDivaSiren New Member

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    I'mma make this short and sweet....i've had more partners than i can count on my hands and feet....you can call me all kinds of names if you want but i have no reason to be ashamed...you learn to live with your regrets and this is something i truly regret....i was young when i started and i'm now 22 going on 23 and i've slowed down a lot....i have higher standards now and it's not that easy for anyone now....but to answer the question, i would ask him why does my past matter if you are my present and going to be my future...so how many partners i've had shouldn't really matter
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  12. sagacious infant

    sagacious infant reflecting the sun

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    Fellas...I think it would really benefit you to just read this...

    two more times to make sure you didn't miss anything. If it doesn't sink in, I hope you at least read it with the intention to comprehend and not just on the defense.
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  13. skandelous_lala

    skandelous_lala back from the dead

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    What the hell are the guys coming here thinking women are going to disclose their numbers?

    Does it matter? And if you don't believe them why are in you in here to try and find out anyways? A chick says she's been with 1 or 2..she's a liar...she's been with 10 she's not a liar but probably a whore. Some dudes need to get their shit straight.
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  14. MCLEOD

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    Tell him the truth then start listing names then locations and then there dick size and if they were good in bed or not , then ask him if he wants it written down , that should teach him not to ask stupid questions
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  15. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    you know...this whole board is not even as fun as it used to be...it's like everytime im on this shit, there's sumthin else im rollin my eyes at like 'wtf'....it's starting to get really lame, and really annoying.

    anyway, Tight was right...the thread wasn't about how many you've had...but would you tell...and now it's like "females are liars, and they front and they're bitches...blah blah blah"

    if you are just mad about the last female that jilted you, i'm sorry...but i think i can speak for all the ladies on here when i say take your misdirected anger elsewhere. I have no sympathy for any guy that comes up on here spoutin off the word bitch to describe all females because of sumthin that happened in real life. That's really lame, and y'all need to check yourselves.

    im gone
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  16. Party Crasher

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    This reply isn't even on some Male vs. Female shit or anything. Just straight FACTS from my homegirls I'm cool with(around 4 or 5) who tell me EVERYTHING. From how they scheme, lie, cheat and EACH have been with 10 to 15+!

    NOW I KNOW this isn't EVERY GIRL because I've heard reports on the HIV rate going down between 2002-2004(i think) and a higher number of teen girls practicing abstinence from various articles from the CDC, but EVERY chick i'm cool with. Like "yea that's my dawg" is a str8 up slut! lol They tell me everything seriously

    Just some ole how it go down in the A town i guess.

    Now, one of my homegirls(19) tells me how she fucks everybody she likes. No matter the circumstance whether he's single, married, homegirl's man or whatever. If she likes him she gonna fuck 'em. And claims most of her click is like that and doesn't SEE IT as a BIG deal. (wtf) lol...You think she'll tell that to her husband later on in life when she finds out how BAD that really is?

    My other homegirl(17) sells her pussy. It's crazy cuz she's one of them cheerleader type girls, prom queen runner up...you would never think. But just to get some extra cash on the side she gets down cuz it's easy. No telling how many she's gotten like that. (Only way I found out is cuz she tried me for a 10 dollar hit(wtf?) and I rejected her cuz i mean shit...Like i said, NO TELLING how many she's slept with. She got a body like Serena Williams and she became cool with me and shit)Imagine her telling her husband that shit???

    Now my other homegirl(19)...I knew her in High School. She was so off the chain. She had a different story for me EVERY OTHER DAY I swear ya'll! Told me how she served up half the football team(they've confirmed lol).She worked out at our mall and lived with her mom and some neighborhood across the street from there...Was fuckin nikkas 19-37 over there FO REALZ...Details and shit like Older men are more caring in bed in shit. Told me she tells her boyfriend she only slept with 2 nikkas??? What the fuck shawty? Says she passes these dudes on to her homegirls also like it's nothin...no lie

    My OTHER homegirl(18)...Schemes dudes for paper...fuckin' 'em just so she can leave the house...averaging like 4 dicks per week stacking paper...Will she ever tell her man that she had to hoe to leave the crib? Different circumstances for each girl i guess


    MY GIRL(21) said she been with 4 dudes. Believe her or no???

    I'm saying all this is to say...

    I THINK WE ARE ALL THE SAME. Only diffrence is. We approach ya'll. But after that...whatever's whatever and YOU know the rest.

    Gotta be...cuz these SAME traits these girls i'm TIGHT with got the same characteristics as my "PlayaFly" dude friends...Except not one of my GUY friends has ever gotten paid to have sex.

    Now do the math...If I got 9 to 10 tight homeys...and they ALL like that...and i got 4 or 5 tyte homegirls...and they ALL like that and "most" of their girlfriends are like that...What am I to think KNOWING how the majority of the women I know get down...Just like dudes...Dudes are just not as RELUCTANT to open up because we achieve a certain STATUS for fucking compared to women who are looked down upon feel me?

    "MY" Conclusion: We're all the same. Only difference is how society sees it. GOTTA BE because WHY is it such an ISSUE for the girls number but i bet if the radio ask the dudes it'd be 40 plus(most of 'em lie, but i know the real players who've had 60 and up my age).
    Am I lying? Or is this just a dude RAMBLING nonsense. See it how I see it ladies.
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  17. AHMGP

    AHMGP Cum & Get It

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    I am 21 and I have been with 4 men. My husband makes number 4 so I guess that will be my last number. I didnt have sex a lot because I was scared of dick. No lie and once I got it, I went crazy with the three partners that I had. Then I met my husband and now I just go crazy with him!!
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  18. urban_tactics

    urban_tactics aka johnny cockram

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    i see it like this....the truth REVEALS itself

    and i dont wanna be searchin on the internet for porn and see my wife in one....

    anything more than SIX is questionable

    seems like when it gets past SIX....the numbers get edited a lil bit...then that amnesia kicks in and they start makin up shit

    errybody makes mistakes....but i TRULLY think that it takes a certain type of person to do that in the first place...

    anybody can say "i was young"

    but.....theres alotta women out there that didnt do that....so its hard for me to just sit and accept that as an excuse for havin double digit partners b4 the age of 20

    thats just ME tho....not even tryin to offend anybody...but this is my take on the situation...
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  19. GEMiNiXtCy

    GEMiNiXtCy Caribbean Vibe

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    this is an interesting topic. yes, people of both sexes may lie about their number of partners, but on the other hand i agree with the whole why does it matter agrunment, if the person is disease free. i have only encountered one past boyfriend that seemed to be bothered that i wasn't a virgin when we first started dating. he said his ex girlfriends were all virgins..uh huh. anyway i am not ashamed of who i have had sex with. we live in 2005 not 1955, i think its a shame that there still is a double standard. a promiscous male or female usually ends up learning the hard way about their choices, but in no way does it make them a bad person or not worth being in a relationship with. it shouldn't matter how many people as long the person is safe with it.
    personally, i don't mind telling my number to a guy, but i do prefer to leave it at a need to know basis meaning if he is going to tell me too. however what do i benefit from knowing? i don't want to know that he has been with 100 girls, i just want to know he is clean and smart about his shit. i don't like to get into sexual conversations right away, get to know me then we can discuss that aspect of our lives. the thing is that alot of guys cannot handle knowing the truth....they want an experienced woman, but look at her like she a hoe if she been with more then 2 people or some shit. i'm 23 and i'm not over 10 yet. i say yet because i'm not married and if i want to have sex with my next boyfriend or whatever i will. sex is a beautiful thing when done right. i'm not going to lie to keep a guy interested.
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  20. Fire Cracka

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    I wouldn't ask the bitch.

    If the pussy is tight than I'll be saying I'mma hit that shit tonight!!
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