Question for the non-cheating men...

Discussion in 'Man Enough' started by Imperial1, Dec 8, 2009.

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  1. Imperial1

    Imperial1 For pressed ones only

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    Bring what down?

    Imperial1
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  2. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Totally. I wish more men were as understanding as you are, about their wives stepping out. Sheesh!
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  3. PR STATUS GFU

    PR STATUS GFU Under The Influence

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    i understand lol
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  4. Nomak

    Nomak Active Member

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    When I was in a relationship, I never cheated. Of course you have those carnal thoughts here and there, but honestly, I'm a faithful man. It sucks though, because when you're single and ready to mingle, there's like a sign on your forehead that says "don't approach me". But when you're taken.....it's like "please talk to me! I'm happy!"
    I just don't understand "people" that get into relationships in the first place, when they know deep down..they're gonna cheat over and over again.
    It baffles my mind. I see that there are thrill seekers in the world and maybe they get off on that, but to me? It's a waste of precious time.
    In my opinion, if I had to pick between "random flings" and "relationship love and sex", I'd definitely pick "relationship love and sex." I'm more of a person that wants trust before anything. :hump:
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  5. Rem Lynxis

    Rem Lynxis A Slight Modicum of Hope

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    I pretty much have a black n white perspective on relationships. You're either in one and dedicated or your single and flailing your arms in freedom till it hurts. I was with a girl and was tempted by probably the finest girl I've met during my highschool career. I've known that girl since elementary, but being a nerdy kid back then; I never did anything. She was older, and all this bullshit. But even then I passed it up. I knew i passed up one helluva good time, but eyy, relationships require sacrifice. Especially now when divorce and break ups are so common.

    If you're a player and u can pull in girls, good for u. and if you're one bad bitch, good for you too. but if you're wifin' someone and you mean it, I feel you should follow through.
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  6. b'

    b' New Member

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    Before I do something that could possibly damage or hurt my relationship I ask if it's worth it?
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  7. weez

    weez Paradise wita pair a dice

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    KARMA IS A REAL BITCH thats why I don't cheat no mo
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  8. Archer

    Archer Hamityville

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    If you can't stay faithful, you're not with the right person.

    Simple as that.
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  9. krisp

    krisp aka PhsyKris

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    I weigh it out


    i think " is this chick worth losing my girl over? " Odds are since im married, I didn't put myself in a position to get to know her well enough to be able to want to replace my girl with her.......
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  10. SmiRk

    SmiRk Logic or Death

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    One woman = enough headaches.

    Plus, now that I got a kid in the mix - I'm not trying to set that fucked up example for little man.

    /shrug
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  11. SIN

    SIN Sincerely

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    Fear.
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  12. LaTiNKiTTeN

    LaTiNKiTTeN i'm a bitch

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    u can only cheat if ur wife/gf's a dumbass...otherwise shed be right onto it
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  13. SIN

    SIN Sincerely

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    bullshit
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  14. futureswag

    futureswag New Member

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    its called, commitment, dedication and a true understanding of what the meaning of love is....being in a relationship for the right reason and being frank and honest with your significant other
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  15. LaTiNKiTTeN

    LaTiNKiTTeN i'm a bitch

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    so ure implyin if u have an intelligent chick for a gf or wife she'd have no clue ure cheatin?c'mon now....dont be dillusional...perhaps ur definition of intelligent chick is way off
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  16. SeeSon

    SeeSon New Member

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    It really all depends on what the guy does for a living. For instance, I have friends that are bankers, consultants, lawyers, and doctors. It is not unusual for them to have to work late and work strange hours. It comes with the job. Now, how is a woman to know when they are working late versus, them telling them they have to work late and then go see someone on the side? There is no way for the woman to know regardless of how intelligent she is.
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  17. I love BIG COCK

    I love BIG COCK The Shows About to Begin

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    If you find a good girl and cheat, you're a piece of shit. Simple and plain.

    because there aren't many out there.
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  18. bgreen

    bgreen Active Member

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    when the person your in a relationship, is worth more to you then,

    A:cheating..getting caught..breaking up..going through the motions, then starting a new relationship

    B:cheating..getting caught..EARNING FORGIVENESS..having to deal with the thought that she could now be cheating on you to get revenge..the constant unsteadiness in the relationship and having to deal with it being thrown in your face in future situations

    C:cheating..NOT GETTING CAUGHT..then eventually feeling like you can do it without being caught thus repeat offenses, eventually leading to the the first 2 options
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  19. SIN

    SIN Sincerely

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    perhaps you're underestimating how resourceful, intelligent, and deceitful men can be
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  20. Mr ExZ

    Mr ExZ evolved

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    implying a girl lacks intelligence if she gets cheated on is one of the dumbest things ive ever heard
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