Question for the non-cheating men...

Discussion in 'Man Enough' started by Imperial1, Dec 8, 2009.

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  1. Imperial1

    Imperial1 For pressed ones only

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    I just read in another thread where Iggy said he's a faithful married man so I got an idea for a thread here for the men who are faithful to their wives or s/o's.

    What makes you stay faithful and how do you avoid the temptation of cheating?

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  2. .:Pain:.

    .:Pain:. Futurely J. Keeper

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    For me it's a simple matter of will.

    I get tempted like everybody else, but I'm strong enough not to cave...
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  3. mr.rip

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    what's the point in it lol. i mean all the hurt you going to feel from hurting her basically just not worth it. i am tempted by women sometimes we are human so the devil is always trying to break up a happy home. i have had women tell me that i could have my cake and eat it to with them. as tempting is it sounded i told them i'm all set lol don't need that much sugar fuck around and make me a diabetic. but it is hard lol. what done in darkness always come to light. i have had one woman to tell me that i was the only man that ever turned her down i said the love i have for my wife is so strong you wouldn't began to understand it. some women take my kinds for a weakness yes i talk a lot of shit and flirt from time to time but it's all in fun. i wouldn't have sex with none of them. i just like shooting the shit with them.
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  4. thedream233

    thedream233 Thrillmatic

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    I dont know about anyone else, but when I'm in love with a girl... shes above every other female in my mind and thats on more than an attraction level... so other women cant compete

    also I'm mostly sick of the single life. too much bullshit to worry about. stds... the risk of an unwanted pregnancy spending money @ nightclubs and going home alone. too much bullshit
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  5. Imperial1

    Imperial1 For pressed ones only

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    Sometimes, they don't all go home alone, however, do you think you(or men in general) get tired of waking up to a different person every morning or waking up alone every morning?

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  6. thedream233

    thedream233 Thrillmatic

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    yeah, every so often when you go to the club, youll be lucky enough to find a disgusting whore that actually goes home with dudes from the club. the bad part about that is, if you meet a girl in the club, you'll probably lose her in the club.

    and I cant speak for other men, but if I'm in love with someone, no I dont get tired of seeing them every morning.
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  7. Ignorant

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    Because sex is a crapshoot these days... I don't like condoms and there's too much hassle trying to juggle many different women... I'm too old for that and not rich enough. And I don't like phones... if my wife ever see me talking on the phone or texting too much, she'll easily know something is up. I never answer the phone. I could live without them. If I did ever cheat, I'd probably use email for communication... and then erase every message after reading. ha!

    I still go to strip clubs and watch porn, though... my wife is freaky enough, but I can be over the top, so I need to experience some next level fantasy shit sometimes... although some women do, I don't consider strip clubs and porn to be cheating.

    I think some men cheat because they're either greedy or not satisfied. The same applies for women.
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  8. Ignorant

    Ignorant Village Idiot

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    Exactly... I used to date this girl that I met in the club before I met my wife... she was cool and what not... and I was really thinking about being exclusive with her, but she kept clubbin'... so that turned me off.

    I feel the same way... but with me, even when I get pissed off at my wife, I still love her titties. I just look at them and everything is cool again. Nice tits are like kryptonite to me.
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  9. Imperial1

    Imperial1 For pressed ones only

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    It seems in this post, you're answering a question as to why men cheat. I'm asking you what keeps you faithful to your woman Iggy. lol

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  10. SeeSon

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    You seem to be upset about being cheated on in the past. I will say this, do not get upset or internalize it. It is no indication on you or how good of a woman/girlfriend you are. Whether you want to hear this or not, men are going to cheat because of how we are wired. Whether you want to hear this or not, good men cheat. Truthfully, the main things that keep men faithful are: lack of options and laziness. The reason why a man cheat is rarely, if ever, how great his significant other is. Society has lied to you, and gotten you to believe that there is something that you can do to keep a man faithful. There really isn't. I think women would be happier in relationships if instead of concerning themselves with whether or not their man is faithful, they simply made sure that he was a good partner, and any dirt he does, he uses protection and doesn't have it in your face. This will never happen of course, but it would make things easier imo.
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  11. Imperial1

    Imperial1 For pressed ones only

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    Where the hell this this come from? Why is it that everytime I ask about certain things about men, it's always got to be about me supposedly being upset about something in the past? Can I just ask a simple question without you or anyone else assuming that I'm being "over-emotional" when answering a question?

    And on a second note, YOU didn't answer the original question. If you are a cheating dude, this thread doesn't and shouldn't apply to you. This thread is for the men who are faithful to their s/o's to answer.

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  12. SeeSon

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    This isn't enough evidence that you are upset [dunno] ?

    I wasn't trying to be an ass. I tried to give you honest insight that I thought might give you a different perspective on the subject, but its clear that you are incapable of being mature and are only looking for something that will make you feel better. Good luck.
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  13. Imperial1

    Imperial1 For pressed ones only

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    No it's not.

    And the post that you quoted was from another thread. Not this one. So to be "mature" on this subject, it looks as if you're trying to pick a fight that you can't win. If you're a cheating dude, go in the "why men cheat" thread and post there. Don't sit up here and single me out, trying to judge me on my standards when the only thing you know about me is my screenname.

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  14. SeeSon

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    hmmm...I guess I was misunderstood in my original post. It was not my intent to "pick a fight". In my original post, I was simply saying that men are going to cheat and the guy cheating had nothing to do with you and you are still a quality woman regardless of whether or not a man cheats. I don't see how that comes off as picking a fight [dunno]

    On another note though, I can post in whatever thread I want. If I want to post that the sky is lavender and its raining purple, I can do that in whatever thread I want to as long as I don't break board rules. If you have an issue with any of my posts, that's really a personal problem and you can add me to your ignore list. If you reread my original post, you will see I was not trying to pick a fight. You're being ultra sensitive and are seeing what you want to see. Good luck.
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  15. Imperial1

    Imperial1 For pressed ones only

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    So in other words, you didn't answer the original question of this thread, and instead, you're claiming to be the spokesperson for the men in this thread who are saying that they are faithful to their s/o's. Yeah, okay. If you're intent wasn't to "pick a fight," then you should've kept the "you're mad about something from your past" comment to yourself.

    If you feel like making yourself look stupid, then that's on you. I don't have an issue with you because of the simple fact that I don't know you. However, I don't hold my tongue (or in this case, my fingertips.) towards the ignorance you've posted in this thread.

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  16. SeeSon

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    LOL...You can't read. You've exposed yourself in multiple ways in this thread. 1) You assumed that I'm a cheater. I have never cheated in any relationship I've been in. 2) I've answered your question in my original post. Men that don't cheat, don't cheat either because of a lack of options or laziness. I never cheated because of laziness. That answered your question. That was in my original post, so how is that picking a fight? Either you struggle with reading comprehension or you only see what you want to see. Either way you've exposed yourself as being an irrational person that lacks fundamental reading comprehension skills. You have multiple threads dealing with cheating because you are trying to work out the bitterness you have from a guy cheating on you...smh...disgusting.
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  17. Imperial1

    Imperial1 For pressed ones only

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    1)Just like you ASSumed I was mad about something from the past?

    2) So basically you're trying to be the spokesperson for the men who say they don't cheat in this thread. The question was "what makes you stay faithful" not "why you cheat."

    I know how to read and interpret. You read, make pre-meditated judgements on a post and then try to defend your argument by using posts that aren't included in the same thread you're posting in. Obviously you didn't read the original post that stated I got the ideal for this thread because of one of Ignorant's posts in the womens forum. Wow, way to go on trying to "expose" someone. (Emphasis on the word "trying.")

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  18. Ignorant

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    I answered both, though. LOL

    What keeps me faithful?

    1) I hate condoms
    2) Therefore I don't want to risk catching STD's or impregnating someboy else
    3) Too much hassle juggling different women... I ain't good with names.
    4) Finally, I do love my wife and I like being exclusive... I'm a one-woman man.
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  19. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Your points here seem contradictory. You're basically stating that all men cheat, and that women should just accept it so long as the man is otherwise treating her right (A bullshit argument, IMO... but I'll save that for another thread), but that you yourself don't cheat.

    It's understandable why Imperial would have made that assumption about you. You talkin outta both sides of your neck. You seem like a guy that wants to cheat but just doesn't have the balls to pull the trigger and is looking for a way to justify his feelings.
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  20. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Pretty much the same reasons I don't cheat. Those, and the fact that, although I wouldn't mind a lil something on the side, I wouldn't want him to have any. I'm pretty selfish like that.
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