I want the board's opinion both male and female on whether or not you view being emotionally intimate with more than one person if you are in a relationship as being wrong? This has nothing to do with physical intimacy but if you're in a relationship do you think its wrong to be emotionally intimate with another male if you are in a heterosexual relationship and you're a female, and vice versa for the fellas? Would you have a problem if your partner was emotionally intimate with another person if they were transparent about everything that was going on? The reason I ask this is because of a situation in my own life where I am close with a girl who has a boyfriend. I know the guy that she is involved with and I'm not sure how I feel about us being close. If I didn't know the guy I wouldn't care, but this situation challenged me to contemplate whether or not emotional intimacy with someone in a relationship is wrong? I don't really want an answer about my situation, I'm more interested in everyone discussing the topic in general. Hopefully we can engage in good dialogue.