so i come home yesterday, and today i find out my 'boyfriend' is hooking up with my best friend. now, it makes a lot more sense for me to freak out at my friend, and ..i'm upset, but not as upset with her as i am with him. she's the type of person that would do something like that, he isn't. during my vacation, those 2 were the ones i talked the most to. i'm completely hurt because she is one of my closest friends, and i never knew. it's the lying that does it for me..and him..we talked almost every night when i was in spain, he never made anything clear about other girls (especially my best friend). having respect for somebody that doesn't deserve it.. ridiculous. i feel embarassed. obviously there needs to be some sort of confrontation, but i don't ..really know what to say. i can't yell, because that never settles anything.. but i have to stand my ground and be like 'motherfuck you'..i just.. =( what would you do? what should i say?