Discussion in 'Ladies Lounge' started by GaLaTeA, Oct 11, 2012.
Perhaps they just need to run free until they find someone just as wild to run with them.
Crazy thursday post. Manga inspired.
that's a sexy outfit.
what do you mean in terms of being tamed?
is that why you're off and on taken but not single?
^There's no switch regarding taken.
But more along the lines of being completely accepted as an equal instead of being restricted to inferiority. (if that makes sense)
that's still kinda fuzzy.
is that like looking at your significant other as someone that's your friend/lover, rather than someone you're constantly trying to conquer or control?
If one needs to control their significant other, that's tyranny, not treating each other as equals.
Nah, it's letting a person grow within the relationship, in absence of any ultimatums, battles for exerting control, etc..
can you elaborate on what you mean by growing within the relationship?
Having creative freedom in all aspects of life, whether it's work, hobbies, continually working on striving towards set goals and surpassing those, but also share everything limitless with significant other.
that sounds ideal.
but that requires a great deal of maturity. though people are more often than not grown up children.
some children are destructive, while others are creative. some share and others hoard. some are trusting while others are weary.
loving someone else is probably in the veins of how much you love yourself. if you love and trust yourself, then you can love and trust someone else. and the depth of how much you love and trust yourself, probably multiplies or intensifies the relationship shared.
yet as children our first instinct is to satisfy our own wants and needs and have a tendency to be quite selfish.
Title reminded me a lot of the novel their eyes were watching god.
Also, I find the title funny because it alludes that some women should be tamed.
Relationships never work either.
Ah, yes, my husband is learning this
to be ridiculously selfish, childish and obsessive in a mutual passionate committed way...
takes time and trust. since everything converted to nanoseconds, most of us don't give ourselves the chance.
Bow before your King!!!!!!!
Kneel before your Queen!!!!
well played, well played
Agreed on all accounts.
I often say never underestimate children, let alone people who forever remained as such.
Life experiences breed maturity and wisdom, some people have more, others less of one or both.
I'll have to look up the novel you mentioned.
And speaking of novels (comedy in this case) and allusiveness ~ it's precisely why The Taming of the Shrew comes in handy.
Not all relationships work, true, however placing "never" on it seems a tad grim.
Chances are not to be passed. Last thing one would ever wish is to live with regret and all the "what ifs" that would eat away at them.
some would say the problem with that is, in a couple scenario you need money to do the types of running-wild women like, so atleast 1 person needs to have lots of it. And THATS who the women are lookin for, a wild-running partner who can pay for it.
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