"Nice Girls"

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  1. SapphireWine

    SapphireWine staring at the sun

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    It's funny you say that. I have a huge problem with this. I want to 'please' everyone and myself at the same time... which usually backfires... big time.






    I want you to take back what you said about animals not having rights. ...I doubt you will.


    yeah, That remark angered me to the point where I didn't even want to argue the point with you.
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  2. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    Hmm. Now I feel like being real skeptical, but I'll roll with that being truth since I'm not here much so its easy to fool me. haha.

    Samii: Nice girls can be naughty too.. I guess it depends on what kind of naughty we're talking about.
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  3. UnbrokeN

    UnbrokeN Well-Known Member

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    im too sexy for a nice girl
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  4. Konscious

    Konscious Resident Sage

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    You can try to please yourself by pleasing others, as long as you don't compromise your happiness and who you are. This might require a redirection of values.

    What rights do animals have?
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  5. sagacious infant

    sagacious infant reflecting the sun

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    I doubt that sex is the culprit of my change of attitude. I've been through a lot more than just losing my virginity in the past (almost) eight years. I was VERY sheltered and limited in life experiences when I first started posting here. Shoot...everyone (from 1999) was different then than they are now. Everyone I know anyway.
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  6. Mind~$oul

    Mind~$oul I'm Pretty

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    No such thing.
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  7. Konscious

    Konscious Resident Sage

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    Yeah, I know... but I didn't want you to change. You were the "It" girl back in '99-'00.

    I detect a strong hint of sadness or melancholy now.
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  8. Porno_Lady

    Porno_Lady Educated and Beautiful

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    i think there's nice girls/guys


    and then there's people that get ran over and are too soft to stand up for themselves in there relationships and probably would be more willing to put up with someone who aint' about shit.
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  9. I like nice women, kids need a nice woman in their life, and so does a man.

    disclaimer:
    You can be nice and still know your own mind, still have a bit of attitude , still be independant, be solitary, not be a doormat. still be spontaneous, not be a hopeless romantic. u can be nice without being needy. You dont ave to be an asshole for the sake of it and to get what u want, that is quite a sacrafice! you dont have to be an ignoramus or a pushover and have no backbone, to be nice. You dont have to feel that the nice guy/girl argument makes you a naieve utopian idealist.After pondering over this subject for a few years, learning the easy way and the hard way. I've learnt all u can be is yourself, and sometimes, other people invest so much into you, whether they be parents, grandparents other guardians, that it is very hard indeed to be anything to far away from that.
    good guys may finish last, but it depends what kind of good person you are. some good people love with complete abandon, have no confidence, or self esteem, or they love for a boost. Other good people, love because they want to love, they can lead, they are courageous, they do what they think is right, try and be authentic, do not shy from say chivalry, speak their mind and their feelings,not ask for constant validation, but just as a reflection of their character and confidence. nice people are likeable, its just a way of the world, humility is magnetic and so is confidence, so whats wrong with nice? It can be dull, it can be too much, cramping, claustrophobic -it can almost be unnatural. But natural goodness, seek yee out, do not be afraid of the flux, or being human. When people say, nice people are pussies, tell em to piss off and tell them the story of the wanker who builds a house that falls apart, because foundations of family without love are fruitless.
    being a nice person is about being more than yourself, (but even this word 'nice' is marred in a candy like way in the context of tgis argument) its thinking in foundations,its thinking in futures. If my dad had been a wanker (which could have happened) and I couldnt look up to him, do you not think I wouldnt have as much, as if he was nice to me growing up? If my grandfather had turned nihilistic when his mum died when he was 9 and when his dad was an alcoholic who was never there for him, where would I be now, knowing he turned to drink, gave up and succumbed perhaps became nasty etc? instead of being nice to me,loving me, caring for me, so what did he leave me? Faith. If you ever doubted whether you should be nice and good, and a role model etc, when you have kids it brings it right into focus. living for someone else calibrates your whole being and i'm not gonna throw a legacy away that was handed to me with such great faith.

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  10. skandelous_lala

    skandelous_lala back from the dead

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    I was always the nice girl...I don't have a problem with that. There's a difference between being the nice girl and the doormat and I am starting to learn that. For too long I let myself be the doormat b/c I thought that was what "nice" was all about, but it is not about taking other's shit. Not at all. And other people may call you a bitch for not taking their shit and othe people may still think you put up with too much shit... it's never a win win situation in this world anyways...the important thing is that you are happy with you.

    In terms of getting guys...did the nice girl win? Hell no. And if she did it was only for a moment before she got thrown away. But only in terms of these guys were looking for ass, not a person. If I let the crazy chick who didn't give a fuck show through, hell yeah they loved that. That isn't me though. It never will be. It has come through, mostly in alcohol or drug induced enviroments..times long gone. I never found happiness there.
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  11. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    oh yeah? well im too hot to be a nice girl.

    one up!
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  12. Konscious

    Konscious Resident Sage

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    Samii, I'd have you speaking in tongues.
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  13. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    well im such a bad girl, that i actually enjoy sex, so i just might give you the pleasure of giving me the pleasure.

    still one up!
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  14. Warpaint

    Warpaint What now?

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    instead of nice, you should just say pushover

    because that is the definition of a nice guy when these type of threads come up
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  15. Doc Holiday

    Doc Holiday The Mr Spock of dis shit

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    i have only dated one 'nice girl', but she was kinda crazy so i had to let that go...
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  16. R-Tistic

    R-Tistic Your favorite DJ

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    I know that I've met a lot of girls who claimed to be "nice", but in a potential victim of heartbreak or misuse type of "nice" and not just kind hearted. Some of them had hella issues that led to their misfortunes with men.
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  17. shut up u pussy
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  18. Konscious

    Konscious Resident Sage

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    ^The truth hurts, don't it?

    Women like "masculine" men who don't take shit... get over it.
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  19. puleaze...I balance my masculine and feminine sides like I shoulda been a libra, and I dont take shit, hell I bounce first.

    I'm sure some chicks like a pothead though
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  20. Konscious

    Konscious Resident Sage

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    ^See, that's why your pussy count will remain low... because you use words like "feminine side"... that's gayer than George Michael.

    Oprah and feminist propaganda have poisoned your mind... listen to me because I'm the antidote.

    Gender roles are great and necessary... sometimes, it's wise to "stifle" emotions... gender behavior is determined more by biology than social forces... homosexuality is a conditioned socialized behavior driven by neutral sexual impulses... a horny man will fuck a hole in the wall when nobody's looking... lesbians still have a desire to be penetrated... there is no biological basis for homo or hetero... we ALL choose.

    And women love potheads... why do you think rappers, musicians, actors, and athletes get so much play?
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