Need Advice .. Im Messin Wit A Girl Thats Got A Boyfriend ?

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  1. PHD Jr.

    PHD Jr. It was all a dream

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    u know why u think there all taken becaus eit's easier to talk to someone when there's no pressure because there taken.so u find urself actually being urself around them instead of running game like u would if u thought u were gonna get somewhere.in the long run u end up opening urself up and catching feelings for the ones that are taken
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  2. Civilian2004

    Civilian2004 New Member

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    if you're messing with a girl who is in a relationship, do not wife/enter a relationship with her. it's just meant for some fooling around and that's it.
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  3. seraph

    seraph New Member

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    ok update..

    the situation is kinda messy now


    woww


    ok, today after work .. she asked me if i wanted to catch up for a drink so i was like 'yea, although all day i was tellin myself i should stay away from her (anyone thats been in the situation will kno it aint easy to stay away from them)

    anyway, i meet up and were chillin' .. we only got 20 mins cos her boyfriend was pickin her up

    now WTF @ this?

    she asks me to meet him - shes like come me my boy! WTF?

    i was like why?

    she says that then he will be cool with her hanging out wit me?????


    i think theres alterior motives, but what are they?


    we didnt kiss or anything - although she kept sayin 'i really wanna kiss you - but we might get caught '


    anyone understand the logics for this?
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  4. seraph

    seraph New Member

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    these are what im thinkin:

    * she MAY want to get caught, or atleast make him jealous? maybe he has cheated on her and she chose me to make him jealous for revenge?

    * shes just a playette - she enjoys the adreneline of this?




    im soooo confused, like, if she really wanted me im sure she'd wanna break up wit him?

    so i dont think she feel me like that, but she said she wanna meet up thursday night to get it in ...

    so maybe she jus wants another dude to fuck around wit?

    hmmm
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  5. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    Thats messed up! That being said I think you need to get out. Sounds like girl is tryin to set you up to get your ass kicked by her man. Any female thats doin dirt knows that you've gotta keep the two men as far away from each other as possible, definitely not tryin to introduce them. Get out or prepare yourself to just have her as a friend with benefits because it doesn't sound like she's gonna make any moves to get rid of her current man for you.
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  6. Mr ExZ

    Mr ExZ evolved

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    ^^ co sign.. this bitch sounds evil man

    my ol girl use to avoid me n her dude being within miles of each other at all cost..

    get the fuck out.. put it to her like this

    yo i like u more then a friend and i wanna be with you (if thats the case) but im not gonna take a second place trophy. either you get rid of him or look me up when you do.

    and dont try the friend route.. that never works

    shes gonna have some sort of crazy response about how the times not ride and she does wanna be with you n how dare you make her choose n blah blah blah.. n the most fucked up part is its gonna sound like it makes sense cause women just have that way.

    nah. stick to your guns n tell her like it is

    good luck man
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  7. Gorilla Nasty

    Gorilla Nasty I'm lame TBH

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    That's what the fuck I was gonna say man. Just man up and tell her what you want.

    That would be the manly thing to do.
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  8. seraph

    seraph New Member

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    mist and xzerous stay with the slick advice

    im tellin her exactly what ya'll said today

    i wiil let you know how it goes down..

    cos im kinda trippin bad
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  9. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    Good luck hun.. And never put someone first who won't do you the same courtesy.
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  10. Offbeat

    Offbeat New Member

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    *hoe radar goes off the charts*
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  11. Civilian2004

    Civilian2004 New Member

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    yeah brah leave her alone fffffaaassstttt.
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  12. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    *gasp* How'd you know!?!

    Relax man.. its a KISS. Granted its still wrong if you're in a relationship, but is surely doesn't make the girl a slut.
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  13. seraph

    seraph New Member

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    yeah it wasnt anything more than a kiss


    anyway

    update

    i get to work - she emails me - i broke up wit him

    next day, we hang out .. were chillin at this bar, her boyfriend turns up - heavy breathin and yellin at her .. im sittin there thinkiin its on for reall .. he grabs her and pulls her away .. they are talkin and goin off


    i walk up and let em kno they BOTH needa sort they shit out

    and i left ..

    thats it.

    wtf..
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  14. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    Sounds like they both are loving conflict right now. Not worth your time at the moment, hun.
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  15. macmilimeterhyms

    macmilimeterhyms Product of the 80s

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    you shouldn't have let him yell at her, let alone grab her, they are broken up, you let him disrespect the both of you and didn't do shit? that would've been a bar fight situation for me
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  16. seraph

    seraph New Member

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    your a clown son

    they JUST broke up that day, its not place to jump in for her

    i mean, i may just be a casual fuck for her lol

    why would i act like her boyfriend?

    she would of thought i was a cornball

    wow @ your logic.
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  17. Civilian2004

    Civilian2004 New Member

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    yeah see this chick seems like she's entertained by doing what she's doing. no matter how cool she MAY seem, she's no good. fuck her and duck her or don't fuck her at all.

    she ain't worth a "deep" relationship.
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  18. Huey Fig Newton

    Huey Fig Newton Rebel-He-Is

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    do she know you a RnB thug?
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  19. lol obama startn shyt already
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  20. Graphx

    Graphx Word? Word!

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    I didn't read all the replies so maybe you've already come to this conclusion...but don't catch feelings for her son.

    I slipped up and did this and I'm just now gettin over the shit...Homegirl was even seperated and supposedly tryin things with me and one point...a week after that she gettin back with him.

    She's with him for a reason, and if she didn't want to be...you wouldn't be in this predicament.

    Be careful duke, hit it, keep it at that and watch your back, ya dig?
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