Need Advice .. Im Messin Wit A Girl Thats Got A Boyfriend ?

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  1. seraph

    seraph New Member

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    ok, i work wit this honey - cool ass girl - real sweet - looks good and has a reall 'fun to be around' personality

    anyways, we hung out after work a few times and vibed, and she tallked of her man - saying shit like its real difficult and what not - sayin shes not happy and he leaves her at home - they never talk and basically she is really unhappy

    long story short ..

    she came over the other night .. her man was goin out and she had to stay home .. so i picked her up and brung her to my crib

    we were drinkin and talkin, and yeah basically we kissed .. a little playin around. Although no sex .. cos she was like nawwww

    then i drop her home, and the next day she writes to me 'so its the next day - the only thing i regret is coming home'

    now i know she is feelin me, lots. But im not sure .. should i be feelin a girl that does this?



    should i wait for her to leave him? will she?

    wtf, i like this girl but i feel like its uncertain cos she in a situation.
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  2. PHD Jr.

    PHD Jr. It was all a dream

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    I aint gonna tell u what to do but if it was my girl I'd kick ur teeth in..just think about if it were ur girl doin this to u
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  3. seraph

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    ^ ok tough guy

    but no, you would NOT kick my teeth in, id body you son

    lmfao
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  4. seraph

    seraph New Member

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    and just to clear things up

    this dude is a control freak - wtf, he goes out and tells her to stay home. constantly.

    he calls her mad names and is an asshole to her

    wtf
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  5. Offbeat

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    um he has to.

    she's obviously untrustworthy and slutty as fuck.
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  6. seraph

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    ^ ill rich, im disapointed @ your attitude

    wow

    lol
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  7. PHD Jr.

    PHD Jr. It was all a dream

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    i'm no trying to be a tough guy I'm saying u posted ur life online I'm giving u an opinion if this was ir girl how would u feel.

    I doubt u'd be ok with it
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  8. seraph

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    i wouldnt be ok .. your right. I understand where your coming from .. im jusst sayin, he genuinely is a fuckin nut.

    I dont condone doin what ive done, but it happened - and the situation remains.
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  9. PHD Jr.

    PHD Jr. It was all a dream

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    to be honest with u I had a similar situation, was hanging out with this girl who had a boyfriend I didn't do anything with her though until they broke up..now were getting married so u never know
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  10. seraph

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    man, im fucked up about this..

    i think she is sooo slick, like i get along with her and i kno she really gets along wit me too

    but imma call this off .. i dont wanna play games and im not ready to get into some sneaky shit ..

    i guess all parties get hurt in shit like this?

    the only hope is, i fall back

    if her relationship falls apart, she can find herself and then maybe somewhere along the line we can pick it up ..


    but yeah, ionno, dont think i can vibe wit this.. i feel real bad
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  11. Gorilla Nasty

    Gorilla Nasty I'm lame TBH

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    LOL, @ wait for her to break up. Are you in love already or something.

    Fuck her, and then she has a boyfriend. It's a pretty sweet situation unless you're some weak fuck who can't defend himself.
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  12. Nam Dekan

    Nam Dekan i got a tip in my pocket

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    That should answer your question...She could be a nut also, and if you try to break it off she might tell him everything and cause a lot more shit for you then it's worth..

    I'd say fuck it though because I don't know about you but I wouldn't want to deal with some crazy dude...
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  13. Civilian2004

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    somewhat agree with Nam Dekan.
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  14. seraph

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    ya'll trippin ..

    i DONT give two shits about ol boy

    i can handle myself just fine.. thats NOT aan issue

    the issue is, i like somebody thats in a relationship .. is it worth it? really?

    and this is us lol
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  15. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    Aww, she's real pretty. I don't think the girl is nuts or a slut. Its a kiss people, c'mon.

    It sounds like you're looking for more than just sex so bottom line--you gotta wait until the girl isn't with this guy anymore. You don't want a relationship to start on the excitement that is created when you might get caught. Though its fun, its not a foundation to a stable or lasting relationship.

    Be the girls friend, tell her you'll be there for her when she's single and ready to start something. Otherwise try to distance yourself so things don't get out of control.
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  16. Mr ExZ

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    DONT DOT IT

    man i was in this exact situation for like a year and a half man. sneaky around, shit was excitin this n that.. but a lot of miserable ass times.. she wont leave her boyfriend, not for a long time. she'll treat u like ur the number one this n all that

    but u gotta think.. if she doin this with her man, what makes you think she wont do it to you? that is if u wanna eventually be with her

    im tellin u man i know the exact situation.. n i was feelin her so much i aint care people told me to fall back..

    im just recently gettin over bitch.. took a long time. im tellin u, stay THE FUCK AWAY
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  17. Nam Dekan

    Nam Dekan i got a tip in my pocket

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    depends on what kinda crazy he is though...he could either want to beat your ass which you could handle yourself on and that's not really crazy. Then there is the crazy where he comes into your house and knocks you out and then ties you up and makes your sex slave for awhile and then chops you up and puts you into a casserole.

    Just depends on the dudes crazy level...but like XZ says if she is doing this with the current dude then what will stop her from doing it to you eventually...
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  18. seraph

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    mist and xzerous got MAD advice.. thats exactly what i thinkin..
    i just gotta be her friend or distance myself - i dont wanna continue to sneak around and play that role..
    and i feel xzerous on the 'she'll treat me like number 1'

    i think to myself, if she REALLY thinks im THAT dude, she'd leave dude eventually - then we'd be friends and see what happpens.. i dont think she has intentions of leaving him

    she find this sneaking shit mad exciting..

    ionno, i think its game over tho..

    lol


    why are all the good people taken?

    hmmmmm
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  19. Gorilla Nasty

    Gorilla Nasty I'm lame TBH

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    Good advice by XZ. Summed, I once was told you lose them how you find them.

    Just take it for what it is (and should only be by your perspective), some pussy.

    I don't know how some of you can stand being the second fiddle even for one second. Either that or I must have a huge ego.
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  20. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    Thanks hun. =) And they aren't all taken.. Just seems to take a long damn time to find a good one. haha.
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