Love....do we really need it?

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  1. ~Eloquent

    ~Eloquent Narcissistic....

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    i was thinkin lately sometime when i meet a girl
    and we click
    i might really start to spiral into these feelings of love and how i want to spend time with her...
    and all these warm feelings
    and start to feel me gettin carried away with it!!!!

    then reality hits me,
    and it brings me back down to earth

    but somethin my roommate said yesterday
    i was like "word,i feel the same way"

    he was like
    "well the sex is great,but its really about just having someone you can trust
    someone who you know really cares for you,
    someone you can talk to when you cant talk to no one else...
    you know that person will always be there for you"

    ive always felt pretty much the same way....

    but damn yall have any idea how hard it is to find someone of the opposite sex that would really show unlimited support from that

    for me basically my mom,
    been their with me thru all the thick and thin in my life
    no one else though....

    so do yall really think love is really needed for survival?
    some guys just worried about flings and all
    and they seem to be fine
    than other guys are worried about love...
    finding it
    without it they can become overly rigid
    cold hearted
    and very isolated and distant
    i do feel like that sometimes
    its a very scary feeling
    cuz really the last thing i would ever want to do is hurt someone...
    but due to my misunderstanding with the world around me and my lonlieness...

    i feel more than capable of dishing pain right back out sometimes...
    it really can be a scary feeling sometimes...

    i feel love is neccessary for someone to remain stable...
    without it you can become very lost,confused,
    and heartbreakingly rigid....

    anyways what do yall think
    is love really that neccessary to have a fulfilling life....

    honestly i do think that everyone needs support...
    no matter how strong they may seem on their own...
    cuz ive lived that way for a while
    and a few years ago it really dawned on me that i really do need someone strong to stay with me thru out all the thick and thin....
    test
  2. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    Absolutely I think love is necessary to have a fulfilling life, but I don't think the only love to be found is in a person of the opposite sex.

    If you feel that not having love from a girlfriend/wife type leaves a person unstable, lost, and or confused.. Theres something within yourself that you still need to discover. A significant other should not complete you or make you who you are.
    test
  3. ~Eloquent

    ~Eloquent Narcissistic....

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    well as far as that goes,
    i really do feel that ive discovered somethin within myself the last couple of years,
    but at times it all seems so pointless when you got no one to share it with...

    ive decided to come clean and speak whats in my heart
    i already know that theres a thousand people waiting to try to rip it apart and say a man should always keep his inner emotions sacred....

    so i fell into their trap became repressed and destructive
    and i could care less how they view what makes me real now cuz ive made my decision and feel it would be best for me if i could find someone i could become open with...

    anyways ill about gettin out of this destructive trap i find myself in...
    first and foremost....

    call me what they will...
    i know that i really got heart,
    not tryin to say that people automatically lookin to attack someone that seems kind of unstable at times,
    but ive also been like this most of my life
    so im no stranger to how they view people such as myself...
    test
  4. Jai-Z

    Jai-Z Bangem, Jai

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    After my first experience with love... no. I don't need it. It's to much pain and heartache.
    test
  5. QUEEN ICESIKill

    QUEEN ICESIKill Wet Dream/Worst Nightmare

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    I think of love as emotions that grow naturally as you spend more time with a person and get to know them on certain levels. I think when you think about love so much, you put all these pressures on your emotions and your partners emotions that it becomes unnatural and either offensive and defensive emotions take away from the natural love that would of grew if it was just left alone.

    Love is a self defining word and emotion that means alot of different things to a lot of different people so concepts of love aren't usually exactly the same between two people of opposite sexes and I think you have to know that before you enter a relationship. You can't say a person loves you or doesn't love you because they did this and that. That's immature and really only that person knows how they feel

    my 2 cents
    test
  6. MC_Say

    MC_Say http:// MC Say

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    I'd die without love... and i'm not the most demostrative guy in earth tho
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  7. ~Eloquent

    ~Eloquent Narcissistic....

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    thats what im sayin...
    see i know im a complex person
    and the only reason why i act out sometimes its cuz i felt so dry in my heart for so long without someone special in my life....

    with someone by my side i strongly feel that i can knock out some negative things in my life...

    but feelin so alone really can catch up to you....
    for a while some people really can hold their own...

    trust i do it,i may sound soft right now...
    i bet thats the picture some guys that have read this have about me,
    without a word being said i bet thats how some of them felt....

    really though,to finally find the better half of me...
    i bet that could really open some doors...
    im lookin into expressing my poetry in different places now,
    i feel ive had enough practice by myself now...
    so i need someone strong to stand by me...
    honestly it would make a world of difference...

    but i can also hold my own,but not to much positives in my life right now...
    i mean i got my family,my mom,my brothers...

    but to go out into the real world feelin all alone,all the time,
    really its tougher than some may think....

    i got nothin but love for yall though...
    hate is just unneccessary energy...
    its tooken alot out of me...
    test
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