Long letter/message i wrote to my GF

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  1. tomahawk

    tomahawk come battle me

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    I think my GF complains too much and takes small matters way too serious. Just need to make sense out of this from a 3rd person perspective.


    Sandy, I’m writing you this because i know i can’t talk to you right now, and i can’t think of anything better to do. I met you thinking you would be a good match for me, and i’m not sure of that anymore. It may sound like a typical response from me, but it’s not me ruining this great thing we got going here, it’s you. However, no matter what i say, i can’t convince you of it. I’ve never changed since the day i met you, i just got frustrated at times with being with someone who is so difficult – there’s a difference here i need you to understand for us to have a chance. I’m not like most guys because i can be compassionate, and i’m sentimental enough to express my emotions when need be, which most guys don’t. I went from having love for you -- to willing to fall for you -- to actually beginning to fall in love with you. The sad thing is, i never see any compassion from you which could validate how much you really care for me. I felt really sick today, but you simply did not care AT ALL! I drove passed a car in a parking lot and you said “i could’ve hit a kid” but you’re a faster driver than me, you do 90-100km on 60km zones (not to mention tail-gating), don’t you think that’s endangering the lives of others too, such as families (etc)? Then you become persistent on why i was driving so fast even when i provided you with a reason, you kept lecturing me about how messed up i apparently am, even though you knew how i was feeling today. I wouldn’t have hit a kid, i’m sure of it FYI and i never kicked you out of my car, you said you wanted to leave, so i said gtfo my car. I was very frustrated because you’re a very hard person to please, you’re never contended with me and you bicker persistently. As soon as i wake up, i call you, and again there’s nothing nice for me, just criticism on how i’m an unreliable person because i didn’t answer your call yesterday [or some other times] due to me SLEEPING. I connect with you so much on a daily basis that i’m appalled by your words, i talk to you on the phone so much and return your calls all the time, that i don’t know what else you want from me. You swear at me all the time: I’m stupid, psycho, weird, an idiot, a loser, and its okay for you to tell me to stfu too but its not ok for me to respond back the same way when i get frustrated. I may not own a business, drive the best car, or bring you the food you like all the time – but im always there for you and willing to take time out of my day to make you feel happy, even when i feel depressed and/or im busy with something. (Yeah i may have went off about your ex today, i was wrong, but im also not well either and i DO have reason to dislike him. I’m not justifying my actions, just letting you know that what i said about him shouldn’t come inbetween us).
    You clearly don’t recognize how much i try, and i don’t want to keep criticizing your behaviour but it’s hard not to when im the one usually taking the stand, as if you were the judge. I feel like i got to point these things out in order for you to truly understand, but i’ll stop the criticisms from this point on. Now, here’s the good part. I’ve been seeing a lot of improvement with the way you behave with me and i really appreciate that. A lot of the times you called me when we get into a fight as of recent, and you make peace. I see that you respect my feelings a lot more, and you’re more easy going and tolerant with me now unlike before. Although you’ve made much improvements, i’d like you to be just a little more caring and compassionate. If im not feeling well, i need you to be there for me and comfort me instead of chastising me. We need our relationship to mature in order for it to last, and the only way it will last is if we both respect each others wants. I’m still ify on whether or not you care for me as much as i care for you, i’m ify about some other things too.. but all i know is that i care for you and still want to be with you. I think there’s a good opportunity here for us to grow as a couple but that’s only if you love me. If you don’t, you need to ask yourself if you really want to be with me. If you don’t love me by now, i don’t think you ever will. Love is not just a word. I’m done, all i wanted from you today was a hug and a kiss, and for you to just be there. I really like when your with me Sandy (now, you think this would make a nice paperback? lol).
    - Adam
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  2. Superman70

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  3. GaLaTeA

    GaLaTeA GymArt

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    Wow. Sounds like bickering is the only thing that holds common grounds for you two..

    Did you give her the letter yet? If so, how did she respond?
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  4. Mikaella Ocean

    Mikaella Ocean Well-Known Member

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    edit this to a suicide letter
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  5. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    youre young...

    shes not gonna care. Id move on before you do something like start begging or something

    Or atleast shorten the letter to a few to the point sentences. Like : ok Im sorry, hope you can forgive, you wanna still be together? If she says yes you ask her to treat you with respect and tell her you will do the same... no need for all that filler man

    because that long ass letter makes you seem weak, girls dont like weak dudes trust me. Get to the point and cut out all the whining cuz she wont give a shit about it anyway.
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  6. Superman70

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    this is the truth^
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  7. GaLaTeA

    GaLaTeA GymArt

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    Busta ftw...
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  8. UnbrokeN

    UnbrokeN Well-Known Member

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    oh yes..busta nailed it:omosalute:
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  9. MistaChan

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    why no say nothing like this u must no speakign to her on the phone or meeting int he rooms and making things is better only lady girls do little messaging like that bastard guy
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