Alright ladies, I need a bit of advice. I mostly a nice guy. I try to be respectful of women and of people in general. Law-abiding, tax-paying citizen. I've recently been given an invitation to partake in some debauchery. I'll explain... I do quite a bit of flirting with a female co-worker. For the most part it's just for grins, but she hit me with a dose of reality today. We often discuss our personal lives with one another so she tells me (and a group of co-workers) that there's trouble in paradise. Apparently she has a considerably higher sex drive than her beau. She cracked some joke earlier today about me being her "Splackavellie". Here's the interesting part. Today was her last day here at the plantation. So I get an email hours later... "I was serious about you being my Splackavellie. You interested?" Now, I was feeling hun from the moment I met her. I was rather disappointed when I found out she had a man. Now I'd basically get a shot at having NSA encounters with her. Problem is, it's wrong. She has a man. I know I can't exactly ask you ladies what I should do, but perhaps you could provide some things to help aid my decision. Perhaps you've been in this situation??? I mean, I want to. Girlie's banging...but I don't want that to come back to haunt me.