Is it normal?

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  1. ebonisunset

    ebonisunset Nemesis of Truth

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    Is it normal when a man lives with a woman and sleeps with her every night and a man still masterbates off of porn when the lady is ready and willing to give him sex??
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  2. Cliq Claq

    Cliq Claq New Member

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    Only if you're bisexual.
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  3. .:Pain:.

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    ^Or a normal man.

    I have sex with my girlfriend almost everyday, and I still masturbate to porn.

    If my girlfriend was willing to do things like, have sex with another girl, do anal on a regular basis, etc., I wouldn't masturbate.

    But she doesn't, so I do...
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  4. RapCritik

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    As you can see by your feedback Ebony, no one man can speak to "what's normal" for men, especially when it comes to sexual habits.

    If you're writing a paper, ask men yourself in person and see what kinds of responses you get on average. you're good looking enough for men to want to talk to you.

    If you're simply curious about a boyfriend, go with your gut.
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  5. Dex Luiz

    Dex Luiz Guest

    He jerks because you're a boring, unsatisfying diva.

    Let him in the back door.
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  6. RapCritik

    RapCritik New Member

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    Eboni, there's some truth to what Dex is saying. If you're dude is white, you should let him do anal. They live for that.
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  7. Nebz

    Nebz R.I.P. Point Game

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    totally normal,give it back, give it back
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  8. L u c y

    L u c y (Administrator) SWERVE

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    looks to me like Pain gave you the most honest reply, this is a question straight off the magazine problem pages lol I've seen it it countless times from all ages and the 'experts' always answer the same - it is natural, to a point. Couples rarely have exactly the same libido (most often the man higher), and so they feel the need to masturbate.
    The problems seem to start when the man prefers this to actual sex..
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  9. ebonisunset

    ebonisunset Nemesis of Truth

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    You have life messed up forreal if you think im boring and i never said once that this was 4 me i just asked a question people can be so retarted. if you dont have anything positive 2 say dont say anything...damn
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  10. ebonisunset

    ebonisunset Nemesis of Truth

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    Thanks for that response i appreciate it
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  11. Dex Luiz

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    The truth more often than not has an unpleasant taste, love.

    I'll leave the positivity and self-esteem bolstering to Oprah.
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  12. RapCritik

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    Ridiculous.

    Men having higher libidos is a myth. I mean c'mon, rarely is a man gang banged by 7 women. It's rare for a woman to have 7 men at once too.... but no way near as rare as the other way around, if you know what I mean. Women want a man who can go all night ... Men just want a woman who's willing. The truth is women have higher libidos than men.

    Question is...why is porn mostly used by men?
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  13. L u c y

    L u c y (Administrator) SWERVE

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    as an outlet for their - quite obviously imo - higher libidos maybe?
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  14. Trey M

    Trey M \.=.

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    I put my thumb in my girls azz when I knock her from the back
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  15. Ignorant

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    Women need to understand that our sexualities are different... just because you're giving your man sex doesn't mean that you're satisfying him completely or not satsifying him completely... when I was in my teens, I used to feel like if I didn't bust 5-6 nuts a day, my balls would explode.

    And sometimes, depending on the mood and situation, the orgasms a man has with his woman may not be as explosive or totally fulfilling... and she may not be up for a round 2 or 3, especially if you have a man that can wear you out.
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  16. RapCritik

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    Women have stronger libidos. It's cultural factors that make them hide it. Even from researchers.

    If a woman admits she thinks about sex, she's a whore. If she admits that she sometimes wants it very badly, she's a whore.

    Women are programmed to hide the extent of their sexual desire, even from other women, or else risk being seen as a whore.

    A decent woman only wants sex from someone she's married to, or at least in love with. Or so the story goes.
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  17. absolute zero

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    lol @ getting defensive and rebutting by saying she's been poopchuted.
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  18. NwThtUKnwMe

    NwThtUKnwMe NAIVE

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    Blah, blah, blah...

    Men watch porn because thats what they do. I have yet to hear any justifiable reason from any man as to why, except they've been doing it since puberty. My husband watches porn, we're young, I look good, we're still in the honeymoon stage, and I want to have sex so much that I get the "I'm tired and have a headache and we've done it twice today already..." But still he watches porn.

    I use to get mad about it, mainly because he kept lying about it and telling me he "just wouldn't do it if it made me unhappy". Bullshit!

    I finally decided that life is too short to be worried about something that is not going away and I should join the party. But what do you know, its too weird if I'm "involved" So I decided to do it alone, and he walked in on me, and what do you know, he's pissed at me and told me today, and i quote, "I don't like you..."

    Nigga WHAT!!!!

    If you can't be real with ME then what the fuck are we doing here?!?!

    I HATE MEN
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  19. RapCritik

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    You're already getting the "we've done it twice today, I'm tired" huh?

    That's just what I was telling Lil Lucy. Women have higher sex drives. When a woman finds a man she's comfortable with and attracted to....then that man will never be able to wear her out.

    C'mon .... am I right or am I right?

    Women hate men for their porn having ways cuz women themselves have to hide their sexuality and save it for that special man they're comfortable with (who won't judge her as a ho) ... while men can jerk off to any woman we want and be seen as normal. We can even go out and fuck any girl we want and be seen as a stud.

    It's the double standard (and the hypocrisy of men) that pisses you off.

    Not true?
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  20. NwThtUKnwMe

    NwThtUKnwMe NAIVE

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    I don't think I could agree more.
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