Ok . Has anyone ever experienced this? There is a guy that comes into my work & I am instantly uncomfortable. I can't talk. I can't hardly breathe. Now I've been married for ever & have no interest in anyone else. This guy is handsome but I see good looking guys all the time - it doesn't phase me at all. There is something about this guy that I don't know if he is a scary stalker or a good guy? He seems nice but he'll ask something like " what book are you reading." and I'm instantly thinking" no I'm not telling you. " I get defensive for no reason. So then I'll tell him oh its a crime book or whatever ,he ask the title and I avoid the question. We were talking about tattoos and he asked to see mine and I said no . What the hell is wrong me? Im acting like a total freak. He tells me he's moving away and I'm relieved then I got all sad. I was a hairdresser forever I work in retail now so I've always been super social at work , this guy comes in & I'm a bumbling fool. All the guys I work with watch & make fun of me for it . It's that obvious .