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  1. babyj8103

    babyj8103 Queen bee*

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    Ok lostprophet and I were together for almost 2yrs and I just had his baby. Well a week after Dominic was born lostprophet said it wasn't working between us. He said we both have a lot to get together before we even think about us working out. His sister tells me that he is moving in with some female now b/c he has to be out of his house. He still calls everyday and says that he loves me but its kind of hard to believe that right now. Well there is this guy that know and he keeps asking me out but I tell him no every time b/c I love lostprohet with all my heart and don't want to do anything to mess that up. Also I see myself waiting for him to come around and want to be back together. What should I do???Hold on to my love for him or just give up now.
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  2. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    people hold on after a while out of habit....

    break the habit.....


    just make sure that other than you two having a kid together that youre not still wanting him cuz of jealousy
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  3. babyj8103

    babyj8103 Queen bee*

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    I want him b/c I love him not b/c of jealousy. I just thought that we would be a family. Every time I try to walk away he says things to get my hopes up that we will end up back together
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  4. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    sounds like an asshole......


    obviously i dont know the whole story, cuz there is always 3 sides, yours, his, and the truth......
    stay in good relations cuz of your kid...but it sounds like you gotta move on....
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  5. Teen Prodigy

    Teen Prodigy Short2003's e-child

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    Send him a private message
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  6. babyj8103

    babyj8103 Queen bee*

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    The whole story would take forever to tell but it seems I just might have to walk away
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  7. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    well whatever you do, do it cuz you feel its the right thing...
    trust your instincts
    be prepared to deal with your decision....
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  8. da_after_shock

    da_after_shock New Member

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    Dont you have real friends?
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  9. Average Whitey

    Average Whitey New Member

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    hmmm... why ask us?
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  10. babyj8103

    babyj8103 Queen bee*

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    do you
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  11. da_after_shock

    da_after_shock New Member

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    Yeah. and when I have problems, I go to them.
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    iconoclast_ PoorBoy Lover Plus

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    Hondurans can't solve problems.
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  13. THRiLLaH

    THRiLLaH Snap, Crackle, Pop.

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    don't forget to rep him, too
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  14. Pent uP

    Pent uP I'd Like to Fight Ten Men

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    damn, i mean, i understand how funny it must be to say some of this shit for u crackheads but wtf, she comes in with a serious issue and u spit on her thread......you are some fucked up cats.........
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  15. skandelous_lala

    skandelous_lala back from the dead

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    I'm sorry about your situation.

    I guess you need to do what is right for you and your child. I think deep down inside you know what is best and how to go about it..it's just that holding on part that gets in the way.
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  16. Short2003

    Short2003 AbsoluteHotness

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    Well Im dissapointed in him, he seemeed like a nice guy...

    If he loves you ect, why isnt he there now? I know he was saying some stuff about court or something?
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  17. babyj8103

    babyj8103 Queen bee*

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    why he isn't here now I don't know. Well he tells me that he don't have the money to move down here but I think he is with that girl he is moving in with. I am going to take him to court for child support.His son will be a month old on the 7thh and he still hasn't seem him. Also his parents think he is soft on me and don't want him to see Dominic unless I come out there.Even then he can't stay the night at the house. So why would I go stay after they are doing all this. He need to realize that he is 21 and albe to do what he wants. To me it feels that he don't want to be there but doesn't want to hurt my feelings but all I want is the truth
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  18. Short2003

    Short2003 AbsoluteHotness

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    I dunno where you're at and where he's at but travelling with a new born baby isn't easy, that's bull shit.. If they wanna come and see the baby they should, it's alot easier on you and the baby.. And if dude doesnt have money to move, the LEAST he can do is drop a lil bit of cash to atleast see the baby..It shouldn't even BE about money.
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  19. Short2003

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    I shouldnt say too much about this b/c I don't know your history, plus there is 2 sides to every story.. Him not even attempting to see his own baby is whack though..
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  20. babyj8103

    babyj8103 Queen bee*

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    I just don't know what to do anymore. I have tries everything to work thing out with him but its just seems to me that its always something new why he can't see his son. I know I have done messed up things in the past to him but its not about us anymore its about my son. I just think there is more then what he it telling me. I really think he is scared now that the baby is here. But I love him and don't see myself moving on so when ever he is ready to be a family I'm here
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