.. .... ....... .. ... .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . is it respect? Definitely not. Women claim this is what they want. YOu hear it all the time on talk shows, songs, and in the movies. But its bullshit. I've lived my whole life thinking that women want respect, but I was really just ignoring the world around me. Why do you think assholes always get women? Why do you think the ghetto ass niggas in the club with big chains that slap women on the ass get laid more than the nice guy who's too shy to talk to women? If being a jerk didn't get the "assholes" laid, they wouldn't BE assholes, they would be nice guys. is it humor? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! hell no! This is one of the biggest lies that women will tell others. A woman doesn't want a man to make her laugh. A woman wants a man that makes her cum. I've heard it said that " You don't see women jumping over Sylvester Stalone (sp) to get to Gilbert Godfry (sp) do you?" As far as humor, its irrelivent. If you Make a girl laugh it wont get you intimate with her, but its also not a bad thing. If anything, it gets you pushed into the "friend zone" Even if women honestly THINK its the reason they are with their man, they are pathologically lying to themselves. is it money? hmmm... yes and no. If a man is stupid enough to spend his whole paycheck on a chick, thinking it will get him laid, then yes, the girl will be after his money. This is where "nice guys" get screwed. Taking women to expensive resteraunts and buying them clothes and shit. It only makes you look like a tool. Yeah, Women like it, but its NOT NEEDED. Atually, the answer was posted in another thread already: Originally Posted by Gotti23 "Degrading a women is actually the key to keeping a women happy cuz everyone knows that women like to be degraded even if they deny it. " It took me 20 years to realize and accept this. I used to beleive women when they said all men are dogs and should treat women with respect. My dad treated my mom like shit, and she never left his side. My brother trated his girlfriends like shit and they never stopped calling him (and the one I know of that he treated with respect cheated on him) Most of my "nice guy" friends struggled with women while my "asshole" friends had women to spare. I'm sorry to say that its true. Treat a women like you dont really need/want her and she's yours ESPECIALLY IF SHE's HOT! stop denying it women. stop lying to the world.