i know a lady that have not been with a man in 25 yrs. can any of you do that?

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  1. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    I'm not commited to dick - I'm commited to me enjoying my vajayjay.

    Seriously. I'm mad at YOU... cause you fucked up... soooooooo... I decide that the best course of action is for me to give up sex?

    Meanwhile... dude is off... probably forgot about my ass and my issue... and is still fuckin and enjoyin his life. And here I am... 50-11 years later... still bitter and backed up.

    I'll just be damned!
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  2. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Take a number... lol.
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  3. Ignorant

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    Why do you think so many women react like that? Because they invest so much of themselves into their men? Because they don't know how to deal with pain?
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  4. Gorilla Nasty

    Gorilla Nasty I'm lame TBH

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  5. Dark_Sun

    Dark_Sun Phantom of the Forums

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    I'll take all the numbers so I will be the last person you serve for the rest of your life. I just hope it's not too many people in front of me though. I don't wanna wait too long...
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  6. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    I think a lot of women feel they give something up/away to a man when they have sex with him. If he does them wrong, they feel cheated in some way... like they got played. Like they gave something away and didn't get something equivalent in return. Like they got duped. Tricked into giving "away" something they value [or should value].

    So.. if they keep running into a string of guys who are only nice to them up and until they "get" the prize... they figure they are doing something wrong, and sex must be the culprit.


    It's like "ok... I gave in. I surrendered. I let you have it. And you fucked me over. No more sex = no other man fcking me over!"

    They don't reognize the other 50-11 lapses in jugement that they made, before the sex ever took place.

    We're supposed to be "the catch". So, if I let you catch me, and you don't act right... I ain't fitna let no one else "catch me" again. That'll show em.

    Only... ummmm... that doesn't work.

    Me... I'm of the mind that I don't "give" coochie away. I might share it with you... but I'm pretty sure that if/when I/you leave, I still have just as much vagina as I had when we first started out. I can start over. And, unless the sex was totally wack, I got something out of it, too. Not to mention, I do not believe that the best thing I have to offer a man is located between my legs... and if a man "gets" that, I do not believe he is getting the best of me. Now... if hes fuggin with my emotions like Smokey.. it's all bad. I might go on and bust a cap in his ass... just on g.p.. But please believe I will live to fugg another day!

    They just need to dig a little deeper and make wiser decisions.
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  7. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Well. Let me see...

    *pointing my finger out to count each dude in line* 1... 2... 50... eleven... 500...

    Ummmm... it's gon' be a minute, sexy.

    *handing you some magazines and a seat*

    I'll brb!
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  8. Ignorant

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    Wow... that's a great freakin' answer... I totally dig that, ma.
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  9. Ignorant

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    I will totally eclipse Dark Sun before I let him get a turn with you... in fact, I'm jumpin' the line and knockin' dem dudes out like dominos, then whisk you off somewhere tropical.
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  10. DaAlmightyDolla

    DaAlmightyDolla Greatness

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    damn she has me beat. ive gone 23 years and some change without dick
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  11. Dark_Sun

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    Hold up now! Not so fast...What if I have the perfect plan to speed this process up and to weed out anyone that is not worth your time?

    *Deploys a free car wash with nude and beautiful white women at a Hooters*

    No brother can resist that and now that we are alone let me take you to where you will find eternal life and love....my place.

    You don't know what she wants and needs like I do. Don't try waste her time when she will be truly happy with me the instant she realizes we were born for each other...
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  12. R-Tistic

    R-Tistic Your favorite DJ

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    LOL that's definitely true, damm.

    I think that there will help me explain why I usually don't talk to some girls who call themselves "born again" or practice STRONG abstinence, because most of them were these types that you describe. I don't know too many females who are born again or practice abstinence that do it for true religious reasons...most of them do it because they feel "used up" and all that.

    One girl who I miiight have considered talkin to fits that perfectly. Even though she never admits it, and tries to make herself sound like she was never on a bad tip...a lot dudes I know have said she got around, and they always tell me I'm stupid for believing that she is hasn't had sex in two and a half years. She has said that she has stopped having sex with dudes because she felt that sex lost value for her, and she wants to make the next person who gets it wait for a long time because they deserve it.
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  13. Ignorant

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    I knew this girl in high school who was the ultimate hoe... I don't know if she had been abused or was just a bonafied nympho... but at 16, she already had 26 different sexual partners and two abortions... and she made no bones about it, either... but I do remember she liking this one dude who ended up dumping her, which made her cry in class... I didn't think she had any feelings with all of that fucking she was doing.
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  14. R-Tistic

    R-Tistic Your favorite DJ

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    LOL, it's more than a few of those kinda hoes. I know one who actually came to college as a virgin...but between her first and fourth year, she racked up 35+ partners. I don't think she had any serious issues, but you could tell she had low self esteem and was damm near addicted to sex. Of course, she'll always have talks like "I am going to slow down and stop giving it up so easy" but she'll be suckin up the homie 10 minutes later. It's all bad for her...and she's decent looking and is smart as hell in class.
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  15. Ignorant

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    ^Wow... but being smart doesn't preclude you from being a hoe, though... sometimes, those are the biggest hoes... I know this woman who is now an anchor on the 6 o'clock news who was a colossal hoe in college... she's now married with kids and I bet her husband don't even know the half... this one chick who got a train ran on her by the football team is now a lawyer... the smart ones are usually honest about their hoe activities, too... it be the dumb ones who work at McDonald's that be lying... "I only been with 3 guys"... yeah trick X 10
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  16. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    How did this turn into a conversation about hoes? Every woman who has ever felt used and/or that she had sex with the wrong person, is not a [reformed] hoe. Bad judgement is not some strange phenomenon exclusive to the "hoe" community. Even the best of us can find ourselves "stuck with fuckin with the wrong one" (Pac).

    And y'all act like promiscuous women are like some foreign creatures, who are all destined to their lives out in whore hourses, nursing carpet burns.

    YES, some do go onto enjoy normal, productive lives. They get married. They have kids. They have careers. They do what many of us do when we get older and done having our "fun"... they "settle down".

    People do change. And some of you should know that, being the "reformed" players you claim to be, yourselves.

    Y'all be on that shit.
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  17. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    I don't even have to say it.
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  18. R-Tistic

    R-Tistic Your favorite DJ

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    LOL, I didn't mean to make the convo turn into "hoes", but I definitely don't feel like what you describe. The thing is, most females that we know who end up burnt out are the ones who may fit into the "hoe" category according to some, because they had bad judgment over, and over, and over....and oooover, and over again. Of course, everyone makes their mis judgments...but when they do it over and over, it is a problem.

    And as far as how "hoes" turn out...yes, that is all true...I never said it wasn't. It does still seem surprising, because the stereotypical "hoe" doesn't fit that profile, you know? People change, but a lot of people still don't give them the benefit of the doubt, and forever judge them. However...as much as most dudes tend to classify these females, please don't think it means we don't respect them as people, and look down on them in any way. I have some homegirls that I've told straight up that many things they've done were hoeish, and I even try helpin em out...but they have hard azz heads.
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  19. .+*MiXd_BeBeQ*+

    .+*MiXd_BeBeQ*+ ReMi-Da dRuNkn pRiNcEsS

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    i doubt that i could do that... damn 25 years
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  20. Ignorant

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    True

    I did think that at one point... like I wonder how do porn stars go on to live "normal" lives... cats like Mr. Marcus been in the game almost 15 years and he's fucked over 1000 women... how do you settle down after all of that?

    I see that now... I guess many of us view sex as a drug almost... if you abuse it like a junkie, you might wind up with a junkie's fortune... homelessness, diseased, crazy, etc... I know it felt like I was headed there, before the lord saved me.

    This is also true... I'm living proof... but it's that sex/drug analogy that can fuck up one's perspective at times.

    Being "normal" now can do that to you.
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