I guess being in the nursing home for 2 years I forgot how much I hate to be alone

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  1. P. Chase

    P. Chase Well-Known Member

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    Atleast there I was surrounded by people

    Although I disliked alot of them and I am so glad to be out of there don't get me wrong

    It's just I hate being alone so much and I'm just so lonely and this sucks :*(
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  2. Superman70

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    Where is your family?
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  3. Shadow

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    You need to learn to survive alone for a time. This, lust, for companionship is going to get you emotionally hurt. Some woman is going to use and abuse you with the mentality you have
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  4. Twamp

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    try to be active or at least stimulate your mind, hommie.
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  5. Tacky Jones

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    Word. Get some hobbies. Do some shit that's gonna take up a good chunk of your day until you start working. That way when you get back to your apartment you're too tired to think of being lonely.
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  6. Caesar

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    Exactly.

    Paper, this is what i've been trying to preach to you. You're thinking like the battered woman with abandonment issues who leaps from one shit situation to another because you can't handle being alone for five minutes.

    Your desperation will cloud your discrimination. You're going to fall for some Cluster B personality who's going to fuck your life up. I'm telling you.
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  7. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    hes not listening, weve all been tryin to tell him for weeks now

    do you even read our advice papes? shit.
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  8. Caesar

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    In the end, he's going to do what he wants to do, and yeah. Fine.

    But for what my input is worth...

    Paper, being alone for a bit to get your shit together is better than being trapped in some whirlwind relationship where you feel even lonelier.
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  9. P. Chase

    P. Chase Well-Known Member

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    All over America

    My mom moved with her boyfriend to North Carolina. I'm gonna go see them in January. My dad lives in Pennslyvania. I'll eventually go see him. And my brother and sister live in Boston. I'll eventually go see them. There's alot of place I want to go soon.

    I appreciate y'all preaching to me but I just don't like being alone. Not even a woman just friends. My 'friends' don't come here often enough or some of them don't come at all and I feel alot of resentment towards them.
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  10. Shadow

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    They probably don't come because you have this depressing, 'woe is me' mentality. It's really not something people like being around or hearing. I've had friends like that. I didn't want to be around them either because they don't listen to reason or advice.
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  11. P. Chase

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    No I don't show I'm depressed or talk about how lonely I am when they come. I put up a front like evereything is all good. I've been around people like that before and know it's fuckin wack so I don't do that. They're just selfish bastards and they never come see me so I'm stuck here alone.
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  12. Superman70

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    so none of these friends came to see you while you were away?
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  13. P. Chase

    P. Chase Well-Known Member

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    Very rarely and very few of them. I don't think it's right. I know if one of my friends ended up in a place like where I was at I would make time to come visit them atleast once in a blue moon. Fuck them.
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  14. Superman70

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    I see.

    I can't give much advice on how to make friends, but maybe you can get a part time job or something.

    What are your goals other than finding a girlfriend?
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  15. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    get a hobby.

    join an activity.

    help the less fortunate.

    all these things will contribute to your happiness. try one, what have you got to lose.....

    and pick one without chicks....
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  16. Shadow

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    Then move on from your friends. Focus on your future. Money, women, friends will come through your success. Dwelling in the gutter will only make things worse. Elevate your game. Find a personal goal that will benefit your future, then go for it.
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  17. P. Chase

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    Yeah in January after Christmas I am going to find a part time job. Or full time off the books. I'll make friends there I'm sure.

    My goal is to be a court stenographer. In January I'm gonna go to school for that also.
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  18. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    are you enrolled already?

    unless youre enrolled already you arent going. Its in a month. Registration im sure has begun.
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  19. P. Chase

    P. Chase Well-Known Member

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    Oh no I didn't enroll yet. I guess I may have to wait til next year :(
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  20. Sir Bustalot

    Sir Bustalot I am Jesus

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    well did you try? or did you just give up already?
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