I randomly get a facebook message from a guy who I once saw myself being in a relationship with but it never happened. This was 3 years ago. The message goes on to say "I miss you...I honestly don't think I could ever stop loving you"... Why do guys come out of the wood works with this? My problem w/ this is I've been in a relationship for 11 months now-and it's the greatest. He knows I'm happy where I'm @ so why confess these things I already know of. I'm not going to say "I miss you too" or "I love you"...I know what I want and I have what I want and it took a lot of work to get where we are. I wouldn't trade it for the world. In my opinion it's disrespect to the man I'm with and everything we have. I don't know if it's too serious that I should tell my s/o or just keep it to myself and pay it no further mind. At the same time, if a girl did this to my guy...I'd trust him to know the right thing to do and tell them kick rocks. I wouldn't need to know. What would you do?