How important is money in a relationship?

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  1. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    i feel this. at the present I make more than my man. I get tips in addition to my checks. And he's hella conservative. He wants me to carry on housewife like duties, and let him run the show [or give the illusion that hes running the show ;) ], even tho I go to work for a full 8 hour shift and am on my feet all day.

    i hate not having money. and i dont mind getting it myself. but as i continue in my marriage im feeling more and more like im gonna have to be a Stay At Home Wife in order to have a full balance. Like he pays all the big bills [rent, utilities], but our day to day, I pay for bc I always have cash. I DO NOT feel like its fair for me to have to cook, clean, take care of myself [to a certain degree], AND take care of him, THEN go off to work for a full shift. When all he has to do is work, pay the bills [which goes hand in hand with working], and take advantage of everything else im doing...





    im sorry, what was the question again?? LoL
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  2. mr.rip

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    lol you see this way you shouldn't drink befor come on here lol
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  3. samii so sexii

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    for reaaaalll!!

    i got hella sidetracked.

    well bottom line: money's important. not important enough to fight over the shit. easy come easy go. im gonna be a stay at home wife soon :-D

    that is all. LoL
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  4. Hash Seeds

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    you should get that dude to massage ya feet or something afterwards lol

    but what you going through actually a lot of women are experiencing nowadays, as far as "making more than their man" tip goes.
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  5. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    ^ LoL i do! I'm a cocktail waitress so they make us wear heels too! walkin around in heels for 8 hours in a smoky casino filled with a bunch of pervs...im gettin at least a foot massage out of the deal haha

    But as of late the tips have been hella shitty. its not worth it. Like we're not sinking in a hole, but we're not making any progress...and im tryna get ahead in life somehow, yknow?
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  6. mr.rip

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    if you put on a shorter skirt your tips will hella improve lol.
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  7. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    wamp wamp.

    i wish it were that easy. our skirts are SEE THROUGH at the casino [we wear briefs or boyshorts over nylons so we're not too nekkid] and im STILL not makin bank. i get lots of offers to go home with dudes. dudes that swear up and down and sideways that they will take care of me...but they won't tip a couple bucks for their Long Island. sm[damn]h
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  8. mr.rip

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    dudes that swear up and down and sideways that they will take care of me

    Hint hint haha you know what they talking bout lol.
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  9. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    man eff all tht. if u wanna take care of me give me an allowance or a monthly check...sheesh. no one wants whats in their pants...
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  10. mr.rip

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    lol i wouldn't say that sammii haha on the right night and with the right waitress he might have a very good chance at scoring lol. somebody in here said it's the bulged of the wallet not the penis lol.
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  11. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    right!

    so fuckin with the right kind of female, if your wallet is phat she could care less about what's in your pants...elephant trunk, or vienna sausage. she dun care. as long as she gets her allowance in the form of a cashiers check LoL
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  12. mr.rip

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    exactly female pimping ego strokers wallet chokers.
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  13. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    ^^ ha!!


    im posting that to my twitter.
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  14. mr.rip

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    lol i knew you didn't love me you just love my doggy style haha.
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  15. samii so sexii

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    keep droppin jewels and i'll keep posting them to my twitter LoL

    matter of fact I got major swagg points for postin tht shit. I shoulda told em tht I didn't even come up with it LoL
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  16. mr.rip

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    lol pimping me you know you ain't right
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  17. Radium

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    money is extremely important to a relationship

    i always used to say that it never mattered in love but i realized that was wrong

    being on earth is like a personal journey through everything the world has to show you. being in love is sharing your personal journey with another person to accompany you as you move through the world. its important to see new things and experience new things. its important to explore what the world has.

    so if you have no money: what places can you go? what things can you do?

    love is strange

    it makes you feel like you can do anything or go anywhere. you cant fully experience love at its maximum unless you can pay to allow your heart to actually physically do that in the real world
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  18. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Welcome to my life, back when I used to bartend. I used to endure all the flirting and obnoxious come-ons, all the while thinking "I sure hope this wack, no-game-having bastard is going to come with a phat tip, for all my time he's taking up that I could be working someone else". Then I would zone back in and pretend to be following what he was talking about & do my little fake laugh & flirt.

    I got good tips but DAMN, it almost wasnt even worth it.
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  19. mr.rip

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    lmao you crack me up just as much as i crack you up lol made me choke on my coffee lol
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  20. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    I'm so sincere though. Most industries where the worker relies on tips, they're not just being nice to you for the hell of it. They could give a damn about you. They're buttering you up for a phat tip.

    I cant tell you how many times I had to sit through my patrons' sob stories, cheesey come-ons, & just conversation in general. I would smile & make nice, but all I would think in my mind was "puhleeeease just stfu and pay me, dude!!!"
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