He speaks the truth... Some big girls just aren't sanitary enough...I'm just saying... Being a big girl..just do whats natural to you. Big girls tend to like it rougher (but maybe thats just me). Make sure you just have fun. Its not rocket science. She knows she's a thickie so if you need her held holding her own big ass thighs up or tig ole bitties in place tell her. Its not offensive. I tell a fat dude not to smother me and a skinny dude not to kill me with the damn skinny ass legs.. Just have fun and appreciate who she is.