Okay. lol.. but this is serious still. In my past as a teen to up to my 20s.. I've always been with girls around my size.. meaning not too fat, not too scrawny, but body tight, in the past a little chubby.. but past few years worked out so I'm relatively fit...but not buff. I'm 5'9, 160 lbs. Most of the girls I've been with.. or slept with have been smaller than me, And they've been easy to.. "move around" or pick them up easy in bed. I recently met a girl who is .. a bit bigger.. big boned, more heavy set, but shes beautiful still inside out.. Shes a good person, and recently we been talking on the phone a lot more and just talking a lot about sex.. and what we will do to each other.. bla bla bla.. almost phone sex but not quite. We've done it a couple times, the usual positions.. missionary, doggy, backwards cowboy.. and a couple other positions.. it was great sex.. but i dont know.. i was just thinking the other day.. because she is bigger.. or "fat". (i hate using that word on a girl), if we have sex.. what kinda tips would u have for that person? I dont want to do something where it'll "offend" her due to her size. I dont know.. this sounds kinda stupid to even ask.lol.. but I never been with a big girl so I dont want her to feel bad or anything... plus i dont wanna embarass my ass either for not knowing how to "HANDLE" a big girl.. but so far seems fine to me.. not sure about her.. Any advice or tips while having sex with her? Any positions NOT to do b/c of her weight? Any perfered positions a big girl like? I heard the usual 69 isn't all that.. "safe" for me.. lol.. but recommended to do 69 sideways instead. I noticed some big girls .. maybe arent as "flexible" and plus due to their bigger thighs.. the movements wont be as "swift" .. so any positions to do and NOT to do b/c of that? lol.. i feel like a f***n virgin asking these things.. but $hiet.. for the love of not hurting someone's feelings cause I'm a gentleman.. i gotta do what i gotta do. haha.. thanks in advance.. and fuk u if you're gonna diss me, at least i'm getting it.